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33 M Mill Valley, CA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–33
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:34pm
Asian, White
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Okay), German (Poorly), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Quality over quantity. For those rare moments of free time in life, I hope to find someone to have a balanced and caring relationship with, a companion, and travel partner.

Living both in northern California and Munich Germany for the time being.

Once, I decided that it would be a good idea to travel by train across the vast expanses China, Korea, Russia, the Baltic states and Poland. I found it fascinating and strangely calming, although not quite as luxurious as the Czar probably imagined.

More recently, I started work on rehabilitating a run-down ranch in northern California (with some wine grapes). So far so good - have been thinking about growing more things, and am making a little wine from the zinfandel this year.

A man has to know his limitations...and stay flexible. I like to feel ready to go at a moment's notice to the airport or on a long road trip. I don't have any rules, they are more like guidelines really. Most stuff isn't too important. I like to concentrate on what I regard as elemental. I like solitude and good company equally.

INTJ, probably, for what it's worth...
What I’m doing with my life
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Personally: Travelling when I have the chance. One major objective is to find a place where I could actually live with ease after the USA.

Recreationally: Learn to ride a motorcycle and learn to fly aircraft.

Professionally: ask me about The Farm. I just bottled some wine from the vineyard (Zinfandel)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Remembering places and navigating around. Seeing the beauty in things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Don't like chit chat too much and have little patience...unless I know you...then I hold you to an even higher standard :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A few books I've enjoyed: Neuromancer, Boomsday, Captain Blood , the Stranger, Lolita, White Noise, Old Man and the Sea, Smoke Bellew, Eiger Dreams, Sherlock Holmes, The Ascent of Rum Doodle, The Master and Margarita, Moby Dick, Big Score, Unbearable Lightness of Being, Fountainhead, and Money of the Mind.

B: Moonrise Kingdom, Porco Rosso, Howl's Moving Castle / Laputa, Buena Vista Social Club, Some Like It Hot, The Adventures of Baron Munchausen, Mystery Men, Fight Club, Seven Beauties, F. Destin de Amelie Poulain, Jiro Loves Sushi, Castle of Cagliostro, Kill Bill, Sky Captain, Bourne Identity, Match Point, Gladiator, Lord of the Rings, Iron Giant, Thank you for Smoking, Hannibal, Matrix I, Night Watch, Lost Highway, Blue Velvet, Casablanca, Third Man.

C: BBC's Top Gear

D:Diverse, across all genres there are a few good samples.

E: Japanese, German, Hamburger+Steak, Russian cabbage soup at Max's, Satsuma oranges, muscat grapes, gokuri squeeze drink, vitamin water 'rescue'
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Internet (it's love/hate)
Being Outside
Being Inside
Quiet Time
Fruit Tarts
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"I have often noticed that we are inclined to endow our friends with the stability of type that literary characters acquire in the reader's mind. No matter how many times we reopen "King Lear," never shall we find the good king banging his tankard in high revelry, all woes forgotten, at a jolly reunion with all three daughters and their lapdogs. Never will Emma rally, revived by the sympathetic salts in Flaubert's father's timely tear. Whatever evolution this or that popular character has gone through between the book covers, his fate is fixed in our minds, and, similarly, we expect our friends to follow this or that logical and conventional pattern we have fixed for them. Thus X will never compose the immortal music that would clash with the second-rate symphonies he has accustomed us to. Y will never commit murder. Under no circumstances can Z ever betray us. We have it all arranged in our minds, and the less often we see a particular person the more satisfying it is to check how obediently he conforms to our notion of him every time we hear of him. Any deviation in the fates we have ordained would strike us as not only anomalous but unethical. We would prefer not to have known at all our neighbor, the retired hot-dog stand operator, if it turns out he has just produced the greatest book of poetry his age has seen." Vladimir Nabokov
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Same thing I do every night...making new plans
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Ask me about the time I was locked inside a fortress in Kiev and had to break my way out. I still don't know If I'm wanted in connection with a busted lock :)
You should message me if
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You'd like to make the acquaintance of a quality individual for conversation. You've got an artistic sensibility and sensitivity. A taste for some adventures in or outdoors. Kind, open and accommodating personality. Sometimes we seek what we'd like to hone within ourselves ;)

You're someone who also has capacity for imagination, with some interesting or creative goals in life. Someone who would like to live for a time outside the US.

Someone who is ready to go (mostly)!