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clutch5681

28 / M / straight / Single

Hackensack, New Jersey

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Ethnicity
Black
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Languages
English

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I am nice to a fault, honest, and trustworthy.

My Self-Summary

I'm a genuine nice guy, honest, straight forward and I'm looking to meet a quality woman. However, I think its important that I talk about who/what I’m looking for..... the woman I am looking for( yes I said woman) is a woman that is totally against playing games, a woman that is not looking to get drunk every day. a loving caring honest and affectionate woman who is nice to a fault.... people that are nice to a fault cant help but be nice because it is apart of the core of who they are.. someone who is mentally sound(I know crazy), someone who is happy with who they are. Finally someone who realizes that they don't need someone in their life but want someone in their life to share everything with. At the end of the day I want to meet someone who I can totally be myself with, someone who likes me as I am, and someone who makes me want to be a better person... who I’m looking for will read my profile and feel compelled to respond because they like what I have to say.

What I’m doing with my life

*Update* As of 8/24/09 I will hopefully officially be a Clinician*

Working with emotionally disturbed teens and looking for my dream job

I am currently looking for super awesome friends and trying to find people down to play tennis

I’m really good at

Listening, advice, im what you would call a "fixer" i find solutions when there appear to be none. also i will always come through for you. i may be late but i wont let you down. getting through difficult situations while remaining calm.. Im really good and mixing logic with emotion allowing for a more accurate answer. Im good at sarcasm.

The first things people usually notice about me

well i thought that it was that i was nice or a softy but they usually notice that i am funny, intense, blunt, and a genuine person

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Movies the matrix, 12 monkeys, no country for old men, boondock saints, memento, the dead zone, lolita

currently listening to Explosions in the sky, 30 seconds to mars sigur roz

Food: im somewhat picky when it comes to food but you cant go wrong with a lean cut of steak

The six things I could never do without

happiness, the internet, ps3, media center computer, generator, someone to spent time with

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The definition of a Friend, why i continue to be a nice guy, if i will ever serve my purpose in life, puppies and kittens.... well puppies not kittens

On a typical Friday night I am

looking for something to do that does not involve going to the same wack local bar over and over. I have found that it is more about who i am with and less about what i do so i am more likely to go somewhere id normally not go if i have great company

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

That i have one of the worst work schedules ever, and that i have a sleep disorder and am awake when most of the east coast is asleep

You should message me if

If you want a Great dependable friend
you have ever been at the store and pass the baking asile, see a box of brownies or something and decide to make a box for someone simply because. if you want a friend or to be in a relationship if the idea of ordered food, dvds and spooning excites you. if you look stunning in a dress but prefer very casual attire

If you are looking to form a real connection with someone and are tired of the superficiality of our current society, if you think we should be friends