I am handsome and reasonably well educated, fit, professionally successful and, I think, rather nice too.
You are a lady with more than a passing interest in kink, perhaps in a relationship like me.
But no matter how hard we try or deny, the sadomasochistic craving, the thoughts, these simply will not go away.
So you tell me, what should we do?
I am a mass of contradictions... emotionally mature and a seemingly modern conventional man but with dark secrets, a caring and sensitive sexual sadist, a loyal and trustworthy adulterer. A genuine fake, guaranteed. And a real person.
I’m married and we're both open to the idea of seeing other people, being polyamorous ... I'll share more with you if we get to know each other.
I suppose I would suit someone who can strike the balance between being an occasional lover with with an interest in establishing trust to open up and explore their sexuality through power exchange and kink. Someone who is not clingy or needy.
I'm a liberal, feminist, an atheist, and when it comes to play I am adventurous but I subscribe to the hippocratic oath. I'd like to think that I'm less of the selfish hedonist that some people initially presume.
The qualities I value are privacy, honesty, respectfulness, intelligence and humour....as well as, of course...a hot body, insane sex drive and a filthy mind.
I’m creative, energetic and fit, look after my body but not obsessively so, I love the great outdoors, going out... and staying in.