I am handsome and educated, fit, professionally successful and, I think, rather nice too. I am also married.
You are a lady with more than a passing interest in kink, perhaps in a relationship like me. Neither of us are whores just looking for easy notches on the bedpost, and neither of us want to hurt our partners.
But no matter how hard we try or deny, the sadomasochistic craving, the thoughts, these simply will not go away.
So you tell me, what should we do?