39 Oakland, CA
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My self-summary
Honest to a fault. Southern without the accent although it slips out occasionally. Laid back. Chivalrous. Open minded. To the point. Kind, thoughtful. Playful. Im a full believer in non-monogamy/polyamory which only works with communication.
What I’m doing with my life
Working on asking for what i need. I'm a pleaser but not always of myself. Creating balance between my job and the rest of my life. Finding fun things to do in Oakland.
I’m really good at
listening. flirting. driving. anything that requires use of my hands and not just in a dirty way. Well, unless you count gardening or changing a car tire or chopping wood. I'm really good at chopping wood. Getting people's stories. keeping my mouth shut....and keeping it open when the time calls for it. flirting. watching sports. being genuine, honest and fun all at the same time. Going deep fast. making people feel safe and comfortable. Multitasking, although i heard that's not considered good anymore. daydreaming. laughing. cracking a joke, usually dirty. Winking. i am so damn good at winking and some of the time, i don't even know i'm doing it. Other times, i very much know i'm doing it.
The first things people usually notice about me
Eyes. They're kinda blue and i've been told, intense. They usually come with a smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
There's a lot here, but i don't feel like listing so much and i'm more interested in suggestions...

Tom Robbins, Kurt Vonnegut, Christopher Moore, The Road...Anything thought provoking or funny or both.

Arrested Development. It's Always Sunny..., Anything medical...

High Fidelity, Labyrinth, The Navigator, Raising Arizona

Phoenix, Radiohead, Ween, The Xx, Bittersweet, Spiral Beach
House, Dub, Soul for dancing.

All food. ALL OF IT!
The six things I could never do without
An adventure, any adventure
Water activities
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why people do the shit they do. Why i do the shit i do. How to balance my awesome life with my really awesome but intense job. What hobby or project am i going to do next. which direction will i take my education now. How do i find someone who's got a hobby/sport/activity that they're super into and how do i get them to teach me/take me with them. (hint hint) Sex, as in, what do i want to try next/how can i be more creative with it and with who. How i can be a more compassionate, loving, genuine, respectful, gentle human in this life and get what i need at the same time. Where can i find some good dance music to shake my ass to!
On a typical Friday night I am
Working or .... hopefully some new adventure.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a very good cook, but i hate doing it.