here I find myself writing in this journal because OKCupid told me to. LOL  How many times in life do we do something just because someone told us to?  Do we not ask why does it matter if I get to 80 %?  Am I that much of a people pleaser?  Apparently so!  Had it have been a real person I might have asked more questions, but if their request was not harmful (as we know these are not) I am sure I would have done my best to fulfill their desire.