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20 Washington, DC Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 24–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 25
Queer, Pansexual
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
When drinking
Atheism, and very serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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go down or go home
What I’m doing with my life
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Spending thousands of dollars to go to school for photojournalism when I'd rather just be cooking so I don't know ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I’m really good at
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Cooking up meals with kitchen scraps
Late night crafting with friends
Sleeping all day
The first things people usually notice about me
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Black, (mostly) always wearing black
Or my watermelon helmet
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't have favourites but I'm very into Tom Robbins.
Typically I stick to non-fiction.
Foreign flix & old 50s sci fi are what my Netflix is filled with.
Any recommendations welcome!
Kill your TV (except Bob's Burgers, what a great show)
DIY, punk, hardcore, crust, grind, metal, sludge, doom, etc
Trying to start some weird music (i play flute) so ~*hmu*~
Been meat free for almost 9 years now?
I try to be as health conscious as possible.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Change, change is always good to keep life interesting
My backpack, my world on my back
Phở, this has become a once a week outing
My Hasselblad, produces the dreamiest negatives
Butter, what else is gonna caramelize those onions
Google maps, this is not an endorsement, I just really need that lady in my pocket to scream at me when to turn while biking
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Consumption, purpose, exploration
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
IDEALLY at a show or hosting a potluck but in reality the restaurant life straps me down pretty good on the weekends and I don't even remember what my friend's faces look like anymore
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Can't tell what's red wine stains or blood stains on my bed...
You should message me if
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DON'T message me if you are
-straight edge (sry, luv booze)
-involved in the US armed forces