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cnmpdx

35 / F / straight / Single

San Diego, California

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Wow, what a cutie! In looks and personality! You'll go far in life, in love and happiness. :) read more

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 0" (1.54m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am open, honest, and a little goofy.

My Self-Summary

I am probably a good mix of stable and adventure seeker. I almost always procrastinate, but always get it done. I love to travel and miss not being able to do it as much as I used to. I grew up living overseas and have lived everywhere from the middle east to a farm community in central Tennessee. All of which I think has shaped who I am and how I approach life. I guess I would describe myself as a tad shy- but am no wall flower, am bold at times and can speak my mind about things I feel passionate about. Most friends would describe me as loyal and a good listener. At 35, I still get called "cute" and seemed to be carded on a regular basis. I am most attracted to someone with a good sense of humor, but beautiful eyes and a nice butt never hurt. I am a single mom of an amazing child who makes me smile and laugh on a daily basis. So, long term I am looking for someone who likes kids and isn't freaked out by the fact that I have one.

What I’m doing with my life

The most important thing that I am doing right now is raising my son. He is a constant source of entertainment and inspiration and also my biggest challenge in life thus far. I pay the bills working as a medical social worker. There are many aspects of my job that I love, but money and the demands of the job I must say have led to some burnout. I love working with people and making an impact, but not sure how long I will be doing what I am doing. So, this is a new focus in my life; trying to find my next path and the where, what and when of that adventure.

I’m really good at

I consider myself a good listener, and a caring and giving partner. Sometimes my kindness can be taken for weekness, but when pushed I can assert myself just fine. I seem to make people feel at ease, so much so that they tell me their life story (whether I want to hear it or not).

The first things people usually notice about me

Not sure. Never asked anyone. I have gotten a lot of comments about my eyes and how dark in color they are. Of course there is the typical comments on the chest. Whatever.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I am embarrassed to say that since my son was born I haven't done a whole lot of reading (aside from parenting and child related books). Its horrible I know. And I consider myself a pretty educated and worldly person. As far as movies- my tastes go from serious and independent films to the juvenile and absurd. I recently watched the uncut version of "Grandma's Boy" and loved it. Music- my tastes are just as varied. I am horrible at describing music and don't have the money or the energy to keep up with it these days, but know what I like when I hear it. I guess I like a little bit of it all: alternative, punk, emo, old country, alt-country, some rap. Recently have been listening to some old Wilco, Dinasaur Jr. and Drag the River. As far as food goes- I am game for any type- just no beef or pork. And nothing beats a really good margarita.

The six things I could never do without

Laughter, my son, good friends, hope, music and the possibility of love.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

what I want out of life. I also think about how I can raise my son to be the best person he can be.

On a typical Friday night I am

Friday nights I am usually watching a movie or hanging out with friends at the house.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am too private to share with total strangers beyond what I already have. You'll just have to get to know me.

You should message me if

You are a secure and an intelligent individual. You are spontaneous and enjoy a good adventure and maybe a little wild, yet responsible and able to pay your bills. You are real and genuine and so are the people that you surround yourself with. You should be able to laugh at yourself and find humor in the little things. Political views aren't everything, but its helpful if you lean more to the left. It is most important that you care about others and have the ability to empathize. Ink is definitely an attraction, but not a requirement by any means. Oh, and most importantly your are honest. And please- no one old enough to be my father. I don't have daddy issues and although age is a state of mind, I see myself with someone in my own age bracket.