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38 M Kansas City, MO

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:26am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
High school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
...I'm a country boy at heart. I'm a dad, football/baseball coach, and a Boy Scout leader. I play first base on a men's softball team with one of my best friends from HS in the spring and fall. I was a Grunt in the Army for 8 years and it helped shape me into who I am today. I love being outdoors, and enjoy staying active. Whether it's a day on the water, a peaceful morning in the woods, or an afternoon/night at the ballpark. I'm the kinda guy that can be dead serious one minute and have you laughing the next cause I just said or did something completely off the wall.

My ideal match would also like staying active( doesn't mean I'm looking for a Victorias Secret model, cause I'm certainly no Luke Bryan), but also appreciate a quiet night in. Preferably a country girl and someone with kids, though neither is a must. I would like to get married again someday, so yeah, meeting someone who is potential wife material is important. Though I'm in no rush and I refuse to just settle for whatever comes along.

One final note. #1 In Sept. 2011 I moved in with my grandma(she's 83 years young) to take care of her after my grandpa passed away. So, I don't have my place anymore. Moving in here was huge decision knowing that I'd be giving up a lot and it has made dating difficult to say the least. #2 I am in no way, shape or form lookin for someone to take care of me (appearantly some people automatically assume that). I pay my own bills and own up to my responsibilities as an adult and parent.
What I’m doing with my life
Raising two boys to be respectable young men. Online dating...still. Working and paying bills. Attempting to become a gym rat... Oh, and being awesome!
I’m really good at
I'm a pretty good softball player. I may be 37 but I still play like I'm 16. Just not as fast I was back then. Grilling, I'll fix ya the best medium rare ribeye or hamburger you've ever had. What I'm not good at is apparently online dating...
The first things people usually notice about me
How great of a dad I am and how much I love my kids. Depending on what I'm wearing, maybe my tattoos. How studly I am. Ha, just kidding. Had to show I have a sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Hunger Games, autobiographies by our Navy SEALS.

Movies: action and comedy.

Music: country and alternative rock

TV: HIMYM, Big Bang Theory, CSI, Criminal Minds, NCIS, Hawaii five 0, Walking Dead. Most anything on History, Discovery and Animal Planet.

Food: give me a ribeye off the grill anyday. Mexican, Italian, Chinese, Thai, BBQ
The six things I could never do without
My kids
Good friends
The outdoors
My phone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Mine and my kids' future.
Is Ms. Right out there? If so, where? Someone please point her out.
Was this spring my last season of playing ball?
Is my son really a future MLB Hall of Famer?
On a typical Friday night I am
Just depends. Usually I'm hangin out at home. On occasion I might go out to a hole in the wall bar for a few beers. If it's baseball season, at a Royals game perhaps.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if want to, and think I'm insanely
You shouldn't message me if you can't handle a truthful and honest answer. And for the love of God, be closer to my age than my son's.