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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28-43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 29
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Average build
Christianity and it’s important
High school
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has dogs and Has cats
My self-summary
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...I'm a country boy at heart. I'm a dad, football/baseball coach, and a Boy Scout leader. I play first base on a men's softball team with one of my best friends from HS in the spring and fall. I was a Grunt in the Army for 8 years and it helped shape me into who I am today. I love being outdoors, and enjoy staying active. Whether it's a day on the water, a peaceful morning in the woods, or an afternoon/night at the ballpark. I'm the kinda guy that can be dead serious one minute and have you laughing the next cause I just said or did something completely off the wall.

My ideal match would also like staying active( doesn't mean I'm looking for a Victorias Secret model, cause I'm certainly no Luke Bryan), but also appreciate a quiet night in. Preferably a country girl and someone with kids, though neither is a must. I would like to get married again someday, so yeah, meeting someone who is potential wife material is important. Though I'm in no rush and I refuse to just settle for whatever comes along.

One final note. #1 In Sept. 2011 I moved in with my grandma(she's 83 years young) to take care of her after my grandpa passed away. So, I don't have my place anymore. Moving in here was huge decision knowing that I'd be giving up a lot and it has made dating difficult to say the least. #2 I am in no way, shape or form lookin for someone to take care of me (appearantly some people automatically assume that). I pay my own bills and own up to my responsibilities as an adult and parent.
What I’m doing with my life
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Raising two boys to be respectable young men. Online dating...still. Working and paying bills. Attempting to become a gym rat... Oh, and being awesome!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a pretty good softball player. I may be 37 but I still play like I'm 16. Just not as fast I was back then. Grilling, I'll fix ya the best medium rare ribeye or hamburger you've ever had. What I'm not good at is apparently online dating...
The first things people usually notice about me
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How great of a dad I am and how much I love my kids. Depending on what I'm wearing, maybe my tattoos. How studly I am. Ha, just kidding. Had to show I have a sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Hunger Games, autobiographies by our Navy SEALS.

Movies: action and comedy.

Music: country and alternative rock

TV: HIMYM, Big Bang Theory, CSI, Criminal Minds, NCIS, Hawaii five 0, Walking Dead. Most anything on History, Discovery and Animal Planet.

Food: give me a ribeye off the grill anyday. Mexican, Italian, Chinese, Thai, BBQ
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids
Good friends
The outdoors
My phone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Mine and my kids' future.
Is Ms. Right out there? If so, where? Someone please point her out.
Was this spring my last season of playing ball?
Is my son really a future MLB Hall of Famer?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Just depends. Usually I'm hangin out at home. On occasion I might go out to a hole in the wall bar for a few beers. If it's baseball season, at a Royals game perhaps.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I battle depression and anxiety. I take medication for both, but still struggle with it. Doesn't mean I'm batshit crazy though.
You should message me if
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You shouldn't message me if you can't handle a truthful and honest answer. And for the love of God, be closer to my age than my son's.