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co_cakep

30 M Jakarta, Indonesia

My Details

Last Online
Jul 19
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Other
Height
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Virgo
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Student
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Indonesian (Fluently), Arabic (Fluently)

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My self-summary
A doctoral student at the University of Michigan Enjoys passionate conversation on intellectual subjects. Tend to theorize about almost anything. The way I think is probably aphoristic, lacking systematicity and coherence. My thoughts flow from everyday encounter and the poetics of the mundane. The miniscules, the quotidian, the small insignificant things are probably the most interesting point of departure for any intellectual rumination and abstraction. That is why I tend to engage in Flânerie.
I consider myself cosmopolitan. Came from a family that traces its history all over the Indian Ocean. I rose to maturity in between cultures amidst different shades of alterity. Born in Indonesia, lived in Australia for 10 years, Yemen for a year, Singapore for two, and now, the United States. Route, I think, route is much more important than root. I like to consider myself fluid and malleable like the calm water of the Indian Ocean.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to be a flâneur.
Flâneur: "A deliberately aimless pedestrian, unencumbered by any obligation or sense of urgency, wastes nothing, including his time which he spends with the leisurely discrimination of a gourmet, savoring the multiple flavors of his city."
I’m really good at
not answering this kind of question
The first things people usually notice about me
Friendly, passionate, big smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Shakespeare, Joyce, Ghosh, Conrad, Marx, Kafka, Naipaul, Baudelaire, Kundera, Toer, Pessoa, Walter Benjamin!
Films: Haneke, Kairostami, Fellini, Lynch, Godard, Bergman, Allen, Antonioni, Almadovar, Reitman, Coen Brothers, Bunuel, Wong Kar Wai
My Music taste is very catholic.
The six things I could never do without
Books,
Cologne,
Internet,
Music,
Friends,
Smart Phone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
time and temporality
materiality
revolution
modernism
On a typical Friday night I am
out drinking and dancing; or
having quiet quality time; or
watching movies
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Obviously if you are interested to know me :)