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33 London, UK Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 27–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:21pm
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Less than $20,000
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes cats

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What I’m doing with my life
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Making hats. All sorts of hats. I work for another designer, and I also work on my own label.

In my 'spare' time, singing (shouting?) with a bunch of the best women in London. Recent gigs included the Raphael Room at the V&A (awesome in the true sense of the word) and a humanist lesbian wedding. We've even made a comedy show.

Watching and discussing films. Eating, and in between the eating talking about eating, talking about restaurants I'd like to try, talking about recipes, planning fantasy meals, planning real meals way too far in advance. Let's just say I'm enthusiastic about food.

Running. Erstwhile marathon runner, currently nursing achilles tendonitis. Sad days.

RAVING. Gotta dance.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The missing letters questions on Pointless
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Short, or that I look like someone they know, or someone's sister, or I look Turkish/north African/Indian/Brazilian etc etc (I'm none of those)

UPDATE JANUARY 2015: for the foreseeable it will almost certainly be the sea green hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Kurt Vonnegut, Philip K Dick, Charles Bukowski, Austen, Charlotte Bronte, Plath, Iain Banks, William Gibson. Graphic novels (Alan Moore, Maus, Scott Pilgrim)

Old Hollywood musicals, especially Cole Porter. Alien. Ferris Bueller's Day Off. Groundhog Day. The Human Centipede.
Heathers. In the Mood For Love. I do think Hollywood is f-ed up and that movies these days are generally not great. But I still enjoy wading through the dross.

TV - I watch all of the shows that everyone else is watching. Ain't the internet great? Louis CK is the best. I have a feeling that Lena Dunham could save Hollywood if she ever writes something that isn't about herself.

Music- 6 music is usually on at work, very rarely I'll hear something new I like. Like that really bitter but upbeat John Grant one ('etch-a-sketch your way out of this one reject') I also like that white denim one where they pretend the last 50 years of music didn't happen.

Mostly electronic music, 90s music, and my dad's record collection. Cream, dusty Springfield, fleetwood mac, sly stone. Blur, Pulp, early suede, elastica, kenickie. (yes i still listen to kenickie) wu tang, dre/snoop. PJ Harvey. Four tet, squire of gothos, ceephax acid crew, modeselektor. Jungle, old school hardcore, some techno, juke/footwork/booty bass. Acid acid acid acid. Loads of 90s and 00s rnb - destiny's child, JT, mary j, soft spot for Mariah. Really like a lot of Malian music, bassekou kouyate etc. afrobeat.

Recent gigs: Kelis (a goddess), Jon Hopkins (a god), John Cale (also a god)

love food markets, new restaurants. All sorts. I don't mind spending too much money on good food.

I see a lot of theatre. Preferably new works. I love work like Orpheus by The Little Bulb theatre company which was life-affirming, touching and whimsical all at once. Having said that I recently saw ' the Nether' at the royal court which was disturbing, depressing, and one of the best new pieces I've ever seen.
I kind of hate Shakespeare but love Arthur miller, and 'enjoy' Ibsen if I'm in the right frame of mind.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
making stuff
sitting down to a nice meal with family and/or friends
dancing to very loud bass heavy music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Hats, to be honest.

Are 'things' really getting worse as it sometimes seems? Or is it just the internet?
You should message me if
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I don't know why, if you feel like it you should though. To all the guys who bemoan the fact that girls 'never message first' - 2 things, 1: I message first loads, so shut up. 2: I know I've got balls, I'd like to know if you do too, so just send a bloody message.

I've checked a few of the boxes in the 'looking for' section. Primarily I'm on this site in the hope of finding someone that I really want to get to know, and who really wants to get to know me too, so I suppose that falls into the category of 'long-term relationship'. However finding a 'new friend' is certainly better than a slap in the face. I guess this is just a fairly long winded way of saying 'let's see what happens'