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30 Tacoma, WA Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 26
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Judaism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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"It is not about the destination, but about the journey"

Self-summaries are tricky. It is hard to come across sincere.

I am often compared to Leonard from The Big Bang Theory...which I am totally fine with.

I am an INFP on the meyer briggs. That describes me pretty well.

I considered myself extremely honest, kind, and open.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a Behavior Technician. I work with children with Autism. It is both incredibly challenging and rewarding. I absolutely love it!!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Recently, I have noticed I have a knack for reading people, which seems to come in handy when you first meet someone. I also think I am really good at being patient. I have been told that I am really good at explaining things to kids.

I like to think I play the guitar halfway decently as well as sing.

As nerdy as it is, I consider myself pretty good at Magic: the Gathering. I play competitively and have done well in a number of big tournaments.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Honestly, I am not quite sure. Maybe my glasses or my ever changing facial hair. People always tell me I look really familiar. I am not sure why that is but I have been called everything from Wesley to Steven. This has been happening more and more lately and I have no idea why that is. People quickly notice that I am really open and easy to talk to. Many people often open up to me simply because I am a good listener, which I think I get from my dad because he is a psychologist.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My all time favorite book has got to be Ender's Game by Orson Scott Card. There are far too many movies I love for me to pick a favorite. Some of my favorites include Amelie, Thank You For Smoking, Slumdog Millionaire, Napoleon Dynamite, City of God, Inside Man, and Little Manhattan. My favorite type of food has got to be Indian. I also love sushi, but who doesn't.

Some more:

Books: Ender's Game, Catch-22, For Whites Only, The Things They Carried, The Lord of the Rings, Hunger Games, The Art of Racing in the Rain, THe Curious Incident of The Dog at Nighttime.

Movies: Napolean Dynamite, The Sixth Sense, Crash, Unbreakable, Office Space, Shawshank Redemption, American Beauty, American History X, Magnolia, Edward Scissorhands, Top Gun, Life As A House, Garden State, Off The Map, Secretary, Orgasmo, Being John Malkovich, Wet Hot American Summer, The Way, 42, Her, City of God.

TV Shows: Dr. Who, Sherlock, Burn Notice, Law and Order, Bob's Burgers, Derek, The Simpsons, Aquateen Hunger Force, Robot Chicken, The IT Crowd, Trailor Park Boys, Parks and Recreation, Seinfeld, Extras, Arrested Development, Orange is the New Black, Archer, Lost.

Music: orginal, rock genre, electronica, underground hip-hop, old school rap, as far as bands go, Guster, Jack Johnson, The Beta Band, Weezer, Nirvana, Pink Floyd, Josh Joplin Group, Dispatch, The Shins, Blur, Nickel Creek, Old Crow Medicine Show, Death Cab for Cutie, Ben Harper, Biznautics, The Beatles, Blackalicious, Big Bad Voodoo Daddy, Beck, Bob Dylan, Daft Punk, The Grateful Dead, Phish, Great Big Sea, Green Day, Indigo Girls, Simon and Garfunkel, Presidents of The United States of America, Postal Service, Tom Petty, The Head and The Heart, The National, Macklamore and Ryan Lewis, Soul Coughing, Gorillaz, Matisyahu, the Decembrists, Brandi Carlile, just to name a few.

If you couldn't tell, I am a huge music buff. I love listening to it as well as creating it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My computer/internet, my family, my friends, music, my guitar, and my dreams.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Social structures in our society. How to travel on a budget.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I am not hanging with friends at a bar or a party, I am playing Magic at a local card shop.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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On a picnic, I have to eat each item of food one at a time.
I pretty much will admit anything, I am an extremely honest person (sometimes a little too honest), but at times tact gets in the way. I try to be tactful about my honesty.

I also fear being "that guy." While I identify as a cisgender straight male, I sometimes hate being lumped in with many other cisgender straight males, but totally understand my privilege as such.

I have never read Harry Potter. I read the first two books and got bored. I will eventually read them, but I am in no hurry.
You should message me if
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If you have any theories on why some strangers look so familiar.

If you are tired of all the hoops of internet dating and actually want to do something fun with another human being.

Or if you were one of the few people who watched the awesome TV show Sons and Daughters.