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  • Ages 40–60
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6′ 2″ (1.88m)
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Mostly anything
Not at all
Other, and very serious about it
Scorpio, and it matters a lot
Working on two-year college
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Ancient Greek (Okay), Yiddish (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Scorpio Pisces rising year the monkey
My phisical body came from Walt & June
My Father came from Florence snd Walt and my mother came from Agatha and Frank
I knew(know) and love them and am grateful for the examples they set as being committed to each other through thick and thin
I inherited their integrity and and the willingness to make sacrifices for each other for the greater whole of their families
This sacred concrete movable moment is EVERYTHING there is
The past is behind me it supported served me and taught me well..The future is beyound the is what is at my feet that concerns me that has my attention
My Creator exists in the Devine instant....yummm
time is a zip line across the grandest canyon....Weeee
I attempt to mimic my Creators creations in music Art my relationship with unconditional Love and moral responsibility
There is much to laugh about and relax/ laugh at it puts things in perspective
I cherish
The Sense of Humour
it's a sustains me
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am Madly Deeply completely in love with the city of Portland its architecture is geography its Air ,Water and Animals and of course its PEOPLE
I thrive on their diversity their artistry their civic mindedness,generosity of their prescious time contributing to the community
that's what spurred me to volunteer at the Children's Hospital and at the local food bank it's the least I can do for the abundance that this city provides
I'm from Hollywood California so this is all very new to me Portland has been a REBIRTH for me

Staying "current" with the Electricity of LOVE
did I conduct ?
hoard or share?
Did I light the night?
or electrocute?

upon awakening I consider the 24 hours ahead before I begin I call upon my higher consciousness that I be divorced from self-seeking and self-centered motives and that others will benefit from my plans as well
I need to get fuel in my system fairly quickly I love raw oatmeal fruit and nuts soaked in orange juice
then I meditated for six or seven minutes to draw on the "Powers that Be"
and then practice my Guitar and attempt to marry the poetry I'm currently chipping away working on with the music from the night before

Teaching children guitar
volunteering at Doernbrecher playing Guitar in the children's cancer ward one of the peak experiences of my life I do it as often as I can

I've played in rock n roll bands in Hollywood California from 1977 to the year 2000 then when I move to Portland I put that aside and shows to become a SINGER SONGWRITER .
.I've been writing songs since 2003 and it's starting to get better so I the middle of making my first album.
Its called THE GHOST OF LOVE if you're curious you can hear some demo tapes at reverbnation Mike Wilcox the ghost of love and some others at MySpace mike Wilcox 2006
I know for a FACT I make a difference in my surrounding world.
That great skills and talents carry a price tag of profound responsibilityto interview them with a message of love forgiveness lightness wit and humorhumor
I am mindful in my speach.....I strive to imitate nature
I have a GREAT affinity for the Blue Whale and a Dolphin and the Orca. they ground me maybe it's my water signs
and on land ; the big Cats and Eagles
I am in speechless In AWE they are fabulous beasts to behold
and in terms of the plant world I have to start with the nation of trees
I grew up in Thousand Oaks California and we played in the giant Whte Oak trees and visited Sequoia National Park
These Trees and rock formations draw powerfully the rocks on the beaches of the California coast the giant rock formations in national parks you send it any particular Joshua Tree is a very powerful place for me I have many friends
Joshua White Oak-Sequoia my stage name!?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Maintaining my connection with my Source my Muse
the care and feeding the ability to gather together SEEMINGLY disparate elements
seeing the orphaned the archaic anacronistic phrase and transplant/juxtapose into my collage of my Super-unconscious
and re-infuse them together side ways
on that GOOD day it creats a quantum effect...true Alchemy lives
I was BLESSED with a Daughter on Jan 12 '83
So...itd be FATHERHOOD that evolves my Soul the fastest
I've played guitar since I was 10 it is the love of my life..
I have to admit I've never been very disciplined with anything but it's come easy to me most things have
Wrting songs (well I am getting better at it)
Writing poetry writing in general people keep telling me I am a Writer
Drawing ..
Drawing was my FIRST LOVE it was taken over by Guitar playing around puberty
but push comes to shove I can still draw well when I put my mind to it
I seem to be pretty good at making people laugh st bringing them out of themselves
Teaching Children to play guitar !
I've been doing this since I moved here
it came naturally after I was an assistant at School of Rock and becomes very easily and children love it too
it's the best the beautiful thing that happens between the parents and the child and myself When the 3 generations of music fuse together it's truly magical
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
this feels awkward describing how other people see me but it's hardly my first rodeo so I would have to say that I'm at ease around people I'm a people person I'm engaging and gregarious
I'm an optimist a poet and philosopher by nature I see the humor in all things and bring it to the table I love to laugh with my fellows
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
seriously this is not meant to be read basically just scanned take what you need and leave the rest I went nuts sorry
i just discovered ALICE COLTRANE
I'd like my music and poetry to be that dedicated to spirituality sensuality and truth in all things
ive just discovered my newest favorite songwriter :Mary Gauthier
Thomas Moores works♥♥
Anais Nin
Marianne Williamsons books and lectures (I opened up for one her lectures in los Angeles its on you tube)
Course in Miracles (of COURSE)

"Ladies and gentleman, THE ROLLING STONES!!!"(stop at Black&Blue)
Iggy and the Stooges 1973 masterpiece:
Hunky Dory
ZIGGY STARDUST and the Spiders from Mars.♥♥♥♥♥
Live from the Santa Monica Civic '73♥♥♥

Left Bank
Merry Go Round
David Ackles

Big Star
Cheap Trick
T Rex♥♥♥
Rory Gallagher
Chris Spedding★★★
Singer Songwriters:
LEONARD COHEN first four albums♥♥♥♥♥
Suzanne Vega

Towns van Zandt
Richard Buckner
Pink Moon/Five Leaves Left

John Lennon solo★★★★
George Harrison solo★★

Mr Robert "Bob Dylan"Zimmerman★★★★★
( Bob "mid life crisis" album)
Hiway 61 revisited★★★★
Blonde on Blonde★★★
Bringing all back home
Another side of

Desire/ Blood on the Tracks★★★

Leonard COHEN'S first four records
( their importance CAN NOT be overstated)

Anais Ninn★★★
Robert Fripper-tronic
john McLaughlin
Barney Kessel (atomic)★★★
Daniel Lanois
Television/Tom Verlaine!!


Merrit Oppenheim (Fur Crockery anyone? )
Maya Derrin(avant garde filmmaker
Max Ernst/Leanor Carrington♥♥♥♥
Egon Sheile
Gustave Klimt!!

Bacon ( YIKES, can't look...can't not)

Mort Drucker☆(60's Mad magazine)
King studios UK (Yellow Submarine)
Ed Big Daddy Roth☆☆☆
The Pre Raphaelites.♥♥♥
Peter Max
Bob Clampett/Beanie&Cecil
Georgia Okeefe/Ansel Adams♥♥♥
the Symbolist movement♥!♡♥♡%110
the Surrealists
Jean Miro

Late 50's USA Rock and Rollers
Swinging London.Carnaby Street.Stones Hendrix Beatle I love the way the dressed I started dressing like that in 6th grade it didn't go over well in the suburbs haha
70's outlaw chic Elvis.Kristofferson. Waylon.Outlaw Western

San Fran/London Psych fashion 67-9
must confess to following the Calif Renaissance Faire in the late 70's so thats in there
dress like a
Pirate?.any chance I get!
Hand made selvedge jeans from Japan

Wings of Desire=♥
Fight Club . (the first rule of Fight Club....)
Hed Wig

Whale Rider

Iron Giant
COCTEAU's :Orpheus/Beauty and the Beast
(hands DOWN my two ALL TIME FAVOURITES)♥♥♥♥♥

David Lynch
The King of Hearts
Dead man★★★
most vampire flix (NOT interview! )

The Virgin Suicides★★
Heaven can Wait (Warren Beatty version)
Buffalo 66(what a cast!)
Days of Wine and Roses

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind♥♥♥♥
the Diving Bell and the Butterfly!!♥♥

Pans Labyrinth. ★★★★★..stunning
Crispin Glover
Marianne Faithfull: super woman roars!
Patti Smith

(Note some where "Made for each other.others ground together....both left undeniably inspired legacy and dynasty behind scouting the mine fields of clover...
John and Yoko
Patti and Fred Smith

Mike Nichols and Elaine May
Beanie&Cecil (Sea Serpents of ambiguous gender lol)
Nico and lou Reed (and.John cale.Brian jones.leonard cohen , Jackson Brown,Jim Morrison and Iggy Pop (anybody else want to step forward?LOL)
Johnny and June Carter Cash♥
Gene Wilder and Gilda Radner
Caroline Jones&John Aston (Morticia&Gomez)♥

Cleopatra & Marc Antony
Captain Smith & Pochahantes
Joan of Arc and her God♥
Ninn and Miller(ouch...)♥
Max Ernst&Leanor Carrington♥wow

Barrymore and Garbo
Hepburn &Tracy
Bacall& Bogey
Stieglitz&Georgia O'keefe

WOODWARD AND NEWMAN....(a model of function and form)

McQueen /Dunaway/Mcgraw
Taylor /Burton♥
Nick Cave and Mick &Polly Jean Harvey in a cage match):incindiary!

Paul and Linda .made for each other..bittersweet
Romeo and Juliette♥
Jesus and Mary Magellan (can you sacred sex 3 times fast?)
Kristofferson and Coolidge

The Sun and the Moon..

some favorite foods
Wild responsibly and humanely harvested Sea food
organically farm raised Beef & Lamb and Venison
Freshly squeezed organic fruit and vegetables juice
fresh organic grown Berries
Extra sharp cheddar
Brie cheese
italian kale
red & green onions
lemons & limes

Some Books:
Webster's Unabridged dictionary
The Hero with 1000 faces: Cambell
Man & his Symbols :Jung
The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice
the Mission of Art by Alex Grey
the Seat of the Soul by Gary Zukav
the Writer's Life by Annie Dillard

the mighty KINKS
Fave Kinks songs:
Im not like everybody else
Two sisters
Dead end street
Stop sobbing
Come on now
sitting on my sofa
(name YOUR favorite Kinks song!)
(But I can have to confess for the first time to not a big fan of Physical Graffiti or In through the out door)
but more more I am in total awe of the artistry and genius of JIMMY PAGE and
the legendary....

Peter Hammil solo

Siouxie's and the Banshees!!
echo and bunnymen
love and rockets♥
The Byrds
The Animals
the Left Banke
Jeff beck
Steel Eyed Spann

999's first record

Patti Smith♥♥♥♥
Joni Mitchell Up to "Blue"♥♥
HUMBLE PIE: real men, real Rock
Live at the Fillmore and Smokin'
Mott the Hoople
I love love dancing to 70 soul Motown in a crowded room

The Who
Live at Leeds
live at the Isle of Wight
Who's next..
Quadrophenia( the record and the movie)

Booker t &the MG'S
St Vincent (whoa christ brilliant!)
PJ Harvey♥♥♥
Ken Russel:Salome;Gothic;Tommy;the Devils
the Lair of the White Worm

Pans Labyrinth(holy shit)
Guillermo Del Toro period!
the Ruling Class (any Peter O'Toole)
Days of Wine and Roses

Children of Paradise :monumental
NOSFERATU (both versions)
Kiss of the Vampire
the Matrix
Passion of Joan of Arc :Carl Dreyer
Emmanuel 1&2
Don't look now
The Man who fell to earth
All of Nicholas Roeg for Christ sake!
Christopher Walken
Robert Downey Jr
early Nicolas Cage
Sean Penn

Haunting of Hill House (Julie Christie)

Sid and Nancy
Bonnie and Clyde
Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid
Ann Margaret
Jill st John
Carolyn Munroe
Faye Runaway
Claudine Longet
Karen Allen
Carnal Knowledge
Bob Carol Ted and Alice
The Wild Angels
On any Sunday

The Loved One ...w/ Robert Morris& Rod Steiger

Masuru Emoto
Charles Schultz

AA Milne

The Tao of Pooh/Tigger
Mojo.Juxtapose High Fructose and Uncut magazines

Carl Dreyer
FW Murnau
James Dean
Liz Taylor
Charlotte Rampling
Sharon Tate

Marylin Monroe.
.Allen Arkin.

Robert Mitchum

Steve McQueen
Gary Oldham

.My name is Earl ..
Twilight zone.
Outer limits
Warner brothers cartoons
Beanie and Cecil
Dylan Thomas
.Paul (&) Tom Verlaine
Harold and Maude
Frankenstein, the Bride of Frankenstein and Young
Catch 22

Louis Armstrong
Diamanda Galas

Bill Hicks
Sam Kinison
Leonard CK

A sensible Car that works perfect
A brilliant "Smart" phone (with a leash)
Art supplies from Japan
My Benchmade pocket knife

Almodovar!! sexy and smart....he really understands his woman
Archer(cartoon..very sexy& funny)
The Mighty Boosh

Rumi the KING
Dylan Thomas Dylan Thomas Dylan Thomas
Emily Dickinson
Sylvia Plath


Linda thompson
David Ackles (brilliant un sung 70's American songwriter)

Jeff beck
Jimmy Page
Howling Wolf
Otis Rush
early Buddy Guy

Sharon Stone

Jeff Bridges.
Sam Bottoms
Ed Norton
Sean Penn

Tilda Swinton (hot and brilliant)
Caroline Jones (she holds the key to my chastity belt)

Liz Taylor
lily taylor
Karen Allen.
Guiermo del Toro's films
Russ Myers films (his portrayal of Woman as empowered
Gregorian chants
Flamenco :Sara Baras
both the music and the female dancers

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
hands down my sobriety
first and foremost
all life begins there for me
My relationship with my Source of unconditional Love I choose to call
my relationship with my daughter echo
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"is this love or fear?"
SEX as in what can I do to bring you pleasure
DEATH as in let's get motivated
LOVE as in what can I do to be
GOD as in my source my own personal source

FOOD I love to cook I love to eat and I love to share it with others
put them in a hat and pick one at any given moment
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
skydiving every Friday night
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you are between the ages of 40 and 60
and please I hope this doesn't sound shallow but the body type that attracts me is slim and has a 60s 70s rock and roll style
physically it's how the girls dressed when I was in high school when I first started falling in love with your species and of course it made a big impression on me
If you have that insatiable thirst for Art Music and Poetry/
but what do I know about what the future holds the most important thing is it there is spark and after talking for 20 minutes some kind of flame and then walk away for a few days and see if it grows in our mind

I am ultimately looking for a GIRLFRIEND
my one and only and if I'm dating you I am dating you and you alone