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codychaos

44 / M / Straight / Single

San Francisco, California

His Details

Last Online
Today – 10:14am
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Leo
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Catalan (Poorly)

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My self-summary
*UPDATE_UPDATE_UPDATE*
been away from here for many months. sort of got caught for a while by someone whom i found to be quite lovely. but... [it takes a bit to hold my interest]

anyway. let's just say that i'm now having a look again. exploring the possibilities. and catching up on old messages.

[okay. i'll preface my profile by saying that there is a fair bit of cheekiness here. and deep seriousness as well.

those with the good grey stuff between their ears will figure it out. i trust in that.

consider that it is a menu from which you may take whatever you like. take it all as presented... or none of it. it's your prerogative.

regardless... it's all an honest reflection of myself. and i am real.

ummm... face pics. i can't post them for professional reasons. ask me and i'll explain.

if you don't like the images of myself that i have posted... then just don't view them. yeah. don't click the 'Photos' link with your cursor.

and if you don't care for my profile, it's simple to just move on past it. so. many thanks, and best to you.

should you be one of the few whom do decide to stick with me, you'll find that i'm actually an interesting guy. one with a sense of humor. a massive heart. and a thirst for knowledge and continual growth. hardly a mainstream sort of guy... and one whom sort of pushes the envelope at times.

edgy. risky. maybe. but know that a life lived with neither of the aforementioned components is a life which is not fully lived. and i am one whom lives life.]

okay. on to it then...

educated. well travelled [like all over the globe]. sexy. sensual. fit. sophisticated... yet casual and chill.

i have many vices. i like nice things. shoes. watches. glasses. clothes. ice cream [and i prefer to make my own... i know... done properly it gets a bit expensive but it's very good... and yes i do cook rather well]. books [ art books as well as non-fiction history and culture ]. cameras [i'm a photographer amongst other things]. aesthetics. style. design.

i'm not materialistic. far from it. rather i'm very discerning. i know what i like. and for that i make no apologies.

very low tolerance for arrogance, ignorance and bigots of any sort [religious, racial, gender, cultural, etc.].

I am intelligentsia, creative, and adventurous
What I’m doing with my life
working with a totally cool green starup with some fantastic people. changing people's lives. for the better. life is good.
I’m really good at
paradigm shifting. and airbending.

i did mention photography, yeah? i'm a shooter. not a wanna be. nor a 'Flickr Pro.' i'm published. i normally shoot delicious storytelling sorts of images of others. i paint with my lenses. i do love to do that.

I'm also quite good at pitching. [no. not baseball. i suck at that.] pitching visionary ideas and concepts. and then the execution.

i've done all of that in professional sport. the media biz. and in fashion. [the whole of it... international as well as domestic]

professionally i love working across borders and cultures.

coffee. i'm good at pulling a proper cup. and good at drinking it as well [ask me how].
The first things people usually notice about me
my smile. most especially if i'm in a cheeky mood.
my eyes.
my relaxed yet slightly edgy personal style.
my legs [they're nice].
my ass [it's nice][and no. i'm not stuck on my ass. or myself. just sayin. if yours is nice i'll tell you as well.]
my ink.
my piercings.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books
let's just say that I have my fave authors... fiction and non-fiction. hemingway. and david halberstam.

Cinema
a man and a woman wim wenders' 'wings of desire'
9songs rendezvous ran das boot pulp fiction fargo hoop dreams american beauty the wrestler
alejandro gonzález iñárritu's 'powder keg' - for bmw films is sheer brillance

Music
industrial new-romantic ambient trance chill dance neo-punk hip-hop speed-rock mash-up drum-n-bass jungle breakbeat dancehall ska rock oldskool-jazz
cafe del mar
hed kandi
ministry of sound
kcrw

food
my fave restaurant in the world is Tragaluz in Barcelona. and it's sister restaurant called Negro [Rojo] just across the alley is pretty incredible as well. so i guess that means that i'm quite fond of Catalan food.

got it? cool.
The six things I could never do without
passport
cameras [yeah... plural]
laptops [yeah... plural... again]
smart phone
music
battery chargers and power converters
[umm... number seven... my skinny black jeans]
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the world. and it's people.
i've been all round the globe. many times over. touched it's soil. taken in it's air. drank it's water. on all of it's continents [except antarctica].

i've looked into the face of this planet we call home. i've looked into the eyes and hearts of it's inhabitants. i've shared their food, drink, and laughter. their compassion and humanity. their religions and cultures. their hospitality.

i'm no holiday traveller. my treks are all to do with my work. for that i've been fortunate. i've truly lived. and loved.

the world. and it's people.
take care of it. and of each other.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i am very open-minded and uninhibited. i know how to kiss. and how to touch. i also have an explorative side... public places can be quite lovely.

soft, quiet, private, moments are always nice. hard, fast and physical moments are as well. depends on moods... and grooves...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
if you are one of those sorts of women whom pride themselves on being 'blunt' and 'honest' and 'saying what's on your mind regardless,' then i'm NOT interested. the qualities i mentioned are just plain rude. they are a mark of lacking in sensitivity, discretion, sophistication, refinement, maturity and general human etiquette. regardless of gender. i have no interest in such people.

if you are a drama queen please keep surfing. if you don't have the presence of mind [or courtesy] to turn your mobile phone off [or to at least silence it] when meeting someone... keep surfing.

if you are cool with all of the above... if you know how to laugh... how to touch... how to kiss... are adorable... then i am your fair game.

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