I am super stoked! I bought tickets to go see Morrissey in Durham NC on March 11th, 2009 at the new Durham Performance Art Center. I've been waiting for almost nine years to see Morrissey play in concert and really excited that I have this opportunity. My question is, is there anyone else who is going to see this show?

Nathan

It is finding someone that feels the same way about you that is the hard part. It is amazing to me the number of people that can have, essentially, identical interests and still not have that initial spark. I have had many of these moments in the last few months; however, reciprocation has not been in my favor. It is not completely my fault. I'm quite sure of this. I have to think that there may be ulterior motives in mind, in some of these cases. I do not think that I have been given a fair shake by some. Whose fault is it really if a first date goes bad? If I make an effort to talk to you, don't stand there shoked at my efforts in person to start a conversation. This is how things work in the world outside of the internet and computer screens. Instead, what I ask for is a little back and forth. If I ask you a question, I expect a response. I more likely to respond to your answer and then what we have established is something called a dialogue.

I find it disconcerting and confusing that the people I would like to date, based on similar interests, don't seem to think that the chemistry is there or they would rather see how things develop with somebody different. In these cold months ahead there is one thing that a lot of people want. Someone else to help keep them warm in the late evening hours or during the day when neither one of you really want to go outside. Correct me, if I'm wrong. I am just growing weary of the people who don't really make the effort to get to know me, because I feel I am worthy of your attention.

I'm growing weary of the "hunt" as well. Now, as someone who isn't into hunting in any form or fashion to begin with, this never really came as something that appealled to me in the first place; however, one has to put themself out there in order to see any kind of results. I understand this. Unrequited is becoming a word that I am all to familiar with. But I've got to try. So I keep moving on, trying to persevere from the remains of another failed attempt at developing a relationship with someone (again not my fault). So, now that I have layed my cards on the table, what say you? Are you bluffing or are you ready to fold? I'm anticipating your answer.