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35 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
When drinking
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Living my passion.
Friends for days.
Built in Chicago and tuned in New York.
QOTSA on vinyl is butter.
All of my photos are #nomakeup.

The "Has cats" option makes people on here seem like shut-ins with ten cats but GUYS I SWEAR I ONLY HAVE 1.5 CATS!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a design director in financial tech and spend the rest of my time geeking out on indie comedy performances and podcasts like Comedy Bang Bang and How Did This Get Made. I've also been a Muay Thai practitioner for the last three years because kicks and being bathed in your own sweat are great ways to expel childhood insecurities.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Guacamole. You're welcome to challenge me but your loss will be swift and harsh.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The scent of fresh cedar, engine grease, cinnamon and curiousity.

Like the ingredients to a cronut I'm a little difficult to read at first but it's my only defense to a chewy center.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
One night I could be watching Frontline on the couch, the next I could be reading Tom Wolfe on my way to a bar to watch a UFC match.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Fresh tortillas
Good weed
Welsh corgis
Founders Brewery
Queens of the Stone Age
Lists of things people like
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be a strong black woman who don't need no man.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Vegging out or raiding the whisky stash with my coworkers/brothers-in-arms. I save my partying for Thursdays and Saturdays yo. I also got over the notion that every weekend must be spent partying a while ago. However I am still known to get home at 5:30 am on Sunday with plenty of gas left in the tank.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The smell of motorcycle exhaust relaxes me. Childhood memory I suppose.

I also recently took up transcedental meditation. Second best thing to ever happen to me, the first being some brisket I had in San Antonio.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- You believe chemistry is the 99% of it.
- You're good at something. Anything.
- Not all your photos are selfies.
- You aren't in some poly thing. I'm not in the sharing mood these days. MINE!
- You happen to be Paloma Faith.

++ Wit, eclectic fashion sense, a filled bookshelf, Staten Island accents and thick legs make my tail wag. Woof.