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59 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last Online
Yesterday – 7:58pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them

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My self-summary
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words fail.
What I’m doing with my life
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i climb & erect steel concert stages.
stage lighting tech
create upcycled art as a form of community outreach
casting my bread upon the waters...
stocking my artcave
supporting social justice
accumulating body ink

"When you find a conscious man you have no choice but to face yourself."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Woodpecker Song in 4/4 time by Woody Woodpecker-(we're all crazy)

Schizophrenic by Eek-A-Mouse

+ (whatever comes out in key during shower medley)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
when Miss Muffet doesn't run

when Miss Muffet's out for fun

when Miss Muffet respects syntax

when Miss Muffet smiles back

when Miss Muffet has released her anger to the cosmos

my spud wrench

doc martens work boots

any cool shoes that make my feet look smaller
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
black women: the sistas on this site all from over the world . (statistics are skewed for the pampered class & don't reflect your awesomeness.)

On the other hand, i can empathize with Charlton Heston's Astronaut Taylor where the human talks & jaws drop. No, it's not the same planet anymore. it's sterilized as we must appear to blend in...cuz free range non-lobotomized humans are taboo. (Happy now?)

( i've noticed a number of profiles where ladies are posing with
semiauto/tactical rifles--a trend or necessity?)

& this is a cosmic question: per Songs In The Key of Life:
why & how Stevie Wonder can say his love is polygamous without consequence (check the liner notes.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?

(First Fridays in Oaktown)

I applaud & uphold the principle that one can be a patriot & still be a socially conscious militant for change. So I salute any lady who isn't home reading this tonight but is out seeking justice with others across the nation. You are my heroines!

ahh & here's a quote from a query message sent to the UK:

"I use the site because certain Americans are too busy to nosh & chat--or too isolated to try."

seeking out those not coarsened or averse (manphobic) or ageist, preferably conscious, lucid, not timid. if a brotha sez you're so fine you assassinate the soul, it's not terrorist watch list time.
You should message me if
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1.) & when all hesitation is cast aside & your "creepy-meter" doesn't go off.

2.) congruence happens.

3.) you raise the portcullis & cross the moat.

4.) if this quote resonates: "instead of cherishing isolation why not cherish sharing?"

(broad hint: the photos i smile in = good endorphins flowing)* (wonder how those got loose?)(undiluted 100 PROOF)

5.) you want to engage & commune & hang out.

The site also assigns me high match percentages to sistas who tend to be younger--don't hate :-) The Cryptkeeper is that other guy.

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