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59 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 20
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
What I have in common with Dorian Gray is pulchritude keeps me young & corruption is forestalled.

i love straight & bi-women served straight or with a bi chaser.
as friends or girlfriends.

no men. no trans-variants. triggers immediate disengagement.
(doesn't seem to halt infiltration attempts though-maybe it's my cologne? Oh, that's right--"a lady never tells.")

Here's a convenient mnemonic for the challenged:
space from earth to moon is translunar, space beyond the moon to the planets is cislunar--the only space I prefer to travel in is the latter.

so i reiterate: natural authentic women-light to dark pigment-of afrocentric extraction/ physique-biologically born female. Any questions?

For the "cis" ladies:
I never got the memo i was decrepit or repulsive for surviving 5 decades with my faculties intact, a profession & no criminal or babydaddy baggage. I like women who like sex & culture & who can't get enough of either.

if ur shy or not erotically adept --I will guide you.

being a man in a wilderness of desirable sistas requires exceptional patience to connect. sometimes its well worth the wait for a righteous woman.
then I become as Antaeus renewed by gynocentric coils.

fortune cookie sez: "it's tough to be fascinating."
fascinate me anyway.

i do not anticipate a life partner so being sexual chattel is my norm although intimacy & bonding can spring from that.

(people learn of my genuine warm & engaging qualities that way-they do exist but are seldom discerned.)

i like single companions & can rock triads with like-minded partners. (huddle for warmth on the energy-saver plan) there's someone for everybody-in some cases there's a few someones who can be assets to our lives once we weather the "first contact" scenario-preferably in a shared hot tub/sauna setting-mimosas within reach. or taking in a cultural event.

i earn my wherewithal from human & protective services. Also a few stagehand calls if needed. editorial & cinema craft work in Hollywood was my former pursuit. My patrols & interventions exposed me to San Francisco's seedy underbelly for a couple of years now & I think it's time to emerge & embrace something life-affirming.

i've been called an anachronism-i guess people need a frame of reference.
so if you've retained a healthy sense of play & exploration-reach out. (if you're jaded or got issues, don't hate.)

If you're a die-hard feminist, I wouldn't grind your bones to bake bread to toss at pigeons-just leave me be. It'll never work with us.

A generation is corrupted beyond redemption ("Don't Ask Me To Smile" poster campaign.)

If you please don't be on a PC high horse with a brotha-seeking fulfillment with agreeable parties isn't predation--it's engagement--pursuing the agency we are free to choose for ourselves. Somehow there's a stigma on that still. Oh well...

Also wish i could boldface this: blk male with good syntax & artistic leanings does not equate to lousy lover or "unsexy" nerd--a widespread belief it seems. read recent SFAQ Vaginal Davis quote-a lingering malady.

this profile screens who reads & who reasons & who resonates.
Oh yeah & who's easily repulsed. The person to whom these words aren't lost will be a rara avis.

Hey robot! "disgusting stuff that scars us" works both ways.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My true friends are hours or time zones away but I'm here now.
wire paladin san francisco

(Maker movement artist/creative)

I live in an environment surrounded by art I've collected or fabricated.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
a fiend like no other
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my profile unsettles with its candor

I use sarcasm, symbolism, metaphors in my speech & prose.

i'm very patient & calm

(you tend not to notice me when I recognize you in the street from the OkC lineup. a lil sumpin i noticed)

you can bare your soul & not be judged.

i really look like my photos.

beta heart & alpha loins: hoo-hah!

i'm good with my hands

i read for hours at a time

enjoy loving hours at a time

i like rocking cool hats, fedoras

major symmetrical fundament is my prime stimulus. (sistagirls "that got it good" in the vernacular.) there is a lush golden mean that challenges the mind to a duel of clarity & triggers lycanthropy in the layman.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
hot tub chronicles-kicking it with good company
mimosas: the gatorade of love
gin: the lubricant of sin
prosecco: packs a subtle kick
Pussers Rum: smooth & dark like scotch

pass the shea butter...stretch out on a towel. i got your back.

(been known to cop multiple editions of a book if the art is revised)

SCIFI invites geek stereotyping so i don't say i love it.
erotic sketches are a lifelong passion-but i don't say i draw them. we men are supposed to be denatured now-devoid of literal & figurative spunk-cuz it's sexist scary oppressive to be true to ourselves. expressing & conveying true nature-wotta concept! my nature hasn't left the building & has years left on its lease. so whomever that doesn't frighten (ENEMY AT THE GATES! Hannibal ad portas! OH MY!) will be the one.

I do not own a TV or subscribe to cable.

I do Facebook & attend black-oriented munches.

DRUDGE REPORT: a frequent online news source
AccuJazz Radio

Viva Riva: African made guerilla-style caper flick
gotta give props to Stand Up Guys--charming film.
wearing out Kurt Elling's Minuano cover. Vjay Iyer (Star of a Story)
Hans Zimmer, Trevor Jones, Basil Poledouris soundtracks,still loving Eleanor Rigby cover by Jeffrey Smith & Kenny Barron. Cecile McLorin Salvant--a talent on the rise.

smoked tofu!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a sista to call my own
a sista to call
a sista

strength to love repeatedly
strength to love

a reliable roscoe

concerts, plays, flea markets.

mega-sized ladylumps
stainless steel ring
sport vitamins
circular breathing
amassing fresh lipstick prints

shoes stamped "vero cuoio" on the soles
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the most stupendous woman i saw on my commute this year--daaaaammmm.

wooing & winning affection from skeptical ladies & the work that must be put in to persuade them.

ideas for my next tattoo on remaining hairless area.
getting that done this year.
(yessss! outline done.)
(actually since this was 1st written I'm up to seven now)

2d Amendment rights being gelded worse from their present state--not good.--(ooops--quietly happening in CA)

earth mother hips--light em if you got em

callipygian dirigibles & the women who own them. voluminous Hindenburgs shifting their mass down the street-causing speech impediments.
(gives me insomnia sometimes if it was truly ridiculous)

the time i quoted a love poem i wrote to a lady i liked & it scared her--that went splendidly :-)

how i fancy a cross between a polysyllabic mastermind & a Black Venus.
oh my..
Two favorite poems: The War Song of Dinas Vawr (Peacock) & The Hundredth Boyfriend (Michelle Clinton) & the life lessons they offer. Invictus is a newfound favorite.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
waxing that.
or at the gym training for same.

I also make time for Oakland Art Murmur/First Fridays
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
bring a friend who likes to play.

The movie Logan's Run should be required viewing.*

*(an old spin on being thirty-something)

*why? because in that film that's the age of human obsolescence.

(contrary to conventional profiling.)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you can work through the paradoxes you just read & you are game. pathogen & drama free. not high on your own fumes. versed in love languages & sex etiquette. waking up comfortably entwined in limbs to shed the cares of the world. u can carry a meaningful conversation. you can be yourself. you are willing to build trust. you can hold your liquor. you actually have an accessible personality. you are down with tantric/erotic interludes. Oakland Art Murmur/First Friday is one of your haunts.
you are open to comparing & sharing truths.
you're a girl who likes girls & guys mixed together.
"cataclysmic paroxysm" is on your "to do" list
you have a cool tramp stamp or tattoo with a backstory to relate.
you have any other backstory to relate.
you don't find it incongruous
you have a kinky side you freely or selectively explore & express.
your frame can rattle crash test dummies.
a lonely girl might find me fun-Swiss army knife mode isn't always on the table. can't always make a centipede.
food for thought: isn't it nice that that we can negotiate our encounters without resorting to abduction? like there are other ways be captivating, ya dig? keep the faith!

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MOST OF ALL: (Nota Bene)
Be who you say you are & do what you say you are going to do.