Right now, I am unemployed... and while that may be a turn off to most blokes. I actually believe it couldnt have come at a better time. Within the period of a couple of months, my sister and her bf of 4 yrs split, mom had open heart surgery. So being unemployed gives me time to take care of my mom, and help my sister out with her two kids. Family is my #1 priorty.
Ultimately, I would love to find someone with similar or compatible ideals. But we shall see! As a dear friend once told me, "hope for the best, expect the worst and you will never be disappointed." And that rings true in so so many cases.