Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I value knowledge most in my life.
I am a person mentally interested in many things. I like to talk
about many things and learn about even more. Anything and
everything is open to conversation. If it isn't something I
immediately know about, then if it or you interest me, I will learn
about it quite quickly.
I recently moved to Oklahoma City from Laramie Wyoming to better my
life. I have developed a plan as to where I am taking my life. I
know all of the things I want to complete on the way there. It
would be awesome to have someone to spend that time, and enjoy that
Communication is essential in relationships. It is also very
important to me as an individual. I like to know many things, and I
ask a lot of questions. ALWAYS. That is a big part of who I am. I
learn best through reading textbooks cover to cover. Sadly for me
there are no textbooks for each person I interact with in day to
day life. So i have other methods I can learn in. Primarily the
questioning any and all about everything. If you can't acknowledge
why you made a choice or took a step... how can you know that it
was the right one?
I am often very blunt in interactions, I have been told I sometimes
speak in monotone if I am avoiding arguing. All that aside though,
I am a pretty sarcastic guy and I can take a step back and not only
ask questions. Just loafing around is fine, just not all the time.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I recently moved to Oklahoma City to try and better my life. I came
down here to have a mental fresh start. I moved down here from
Laramie Wyoming. I was born and raised there. I came down here to
experience a few new things and meet new and different kinds of
people. I have a few active hobbies that I do with my spare time. I
work overnights at Walmart. Not the most glorious job, but it pays
the bills and is as close to on my preferred life schedule as I
have found that I can get.
Perpetual progression. Never stagnate. That is my life goal.
I hope that I find someone to enjoy the time I spend on this goal.
If you aren't making yourself better every day... through
knowledge, experience, or your choices... Who's going to make those
choices for you? Who shall make YOU better? So I choose to make me
better. Everyday. Learn something actively and not just be another
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at my hobbies. I play Magic the Gathering a lot. I travel
many weekends making money on my travels for the game. I play
Hearthstone quite a bit when I am home as well. In general I like
card games. I am very financially responsible. Very good at
balancing a checkbook and planning for bills and necessities within
their time frames of need. I am a very logic based person. I think
through my decisions. I know why I choose what I do. I am good at
know me and my choices. I value learning. But I learn in a very
different way than most others. I tend to think it is something I
am good at. Learning. Could be that I am just good at learning
things I want to though.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I think a lot. I'm more quiet in the beginning in real life
situations, gauging and reading the people around me. Then when I'm
more comfortable... or comfortable enough I'll talk more. If you
ask me I am confident. Some people say that I have an almost too
assertive approach to interactions. I am a dominant personality
type. I've been told I speak different than most. I have been told
my approach to life is unique and not something to be told to
everyone. My realistic and impartial views of most everything
offset people often. But some of those are all things that take
time to look into. Not the first thing someone notices. I have to
open my mouth before a person learns much about me.
I have never actually asked anyone what they notice first. Judging
a book by it's cover is a very poor way to assess people I believe.
They have to talk, be pushed to think and assessed while such
things are instigated. You learn a lot about people if you can see
their thought lines.
As for the initial... what shall you notice?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books-I enjoy Philosophy and Psychology books mostly if I get to
choose what I am reading. Philosophy is quickly changing into
reading books on the human body though. So many small things that I
don't know about just yet. Overall most commonly willing to read
anything that I don't know about though.
I read some fiction, not much though. When I do it is always
fantasy and commonly full of manipulative demons trying to attain
more then they are allowed to. That being said although she is not
a demon, my favorite character in books I have read is Guenhwyvar.
I know she isn't a main character, but Drizzt is simply labeled a
non conformist in most situations. Gwen at least alters when she
acts certain ways. :)
Movies-I like most horror movies in the end. I prefer the thinker
ones rather than the mass blood and gore entertainment ones.
My favorite movie is Good Will Hunting though. I also like A
Beautiful Mind a lot. Nightmare Before Christmas is my favorite
Shows-I don't watch T.V. or any mediums that would allow me to see
shows on it often. I would say that I do enjoy watching House on
Music-Music is an important part of my life. It fuels my daily
speed and mentality. I listen primarily to Metal. I have a heavy
preference to female vocalists. Otep is my favorite. In This Moment
is very good as well though. There are others, those are the two
that most know of or hear me listening to though.
Just because I listen primarily to or have a preference of metal,
does not mean I won't listen to anything else. I am more than
willing to listen to anything. I just need music in general
playing. I understand most people may not like my specific music
though. So I don't mind listening to theirs.
Food-I'm a pretty simple guy. I like rare cheseburgers with lots of
toppings and eggs.
I cook well enough, and enjoy most food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My mind.
2. My ability to think and think for myself.
3. My ability to adapt.
4. My ability to learn things efficiently.
5. Another person to talk with. (I don't know how real hermit's do
6. Something to occupy any free time I have... if I ever have
These answers are of course ignoring the obvious logical answers
necessary for life sustainability. Food, shelter, water... stuff
Now if the prompt line read "... things I'd prefer to never do
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My mind is perpetually going on about a list of things that I don't
understand and would like to. Or they may be things I understand
but don't like and I am trying to think of a pathway to eliminate
or alter those things presence in my life. I think on those things
often. Rotating between them. Always trying for something I hadn't
thought of before. One day I'll succeed and I will have made my
life only influenced by the things I decide it shall be.
Lately I had been thinking about organizing my life and concocting
a path for me to be on with an end goal in mental sight. Now that I
have that figured out I think about my hobbies more and about how
to improve my life beyond monetary gains and placement physically.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I tend to go to FNM at Game HQ when I get the chance to. Otherwise
I spend some time with some friends or my cat at home. Which leads
me to spending time relaxing. So I paint, read, or play
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