In addition to stand up I also perform acoustic mash-ups (combining multiple songs into one).
Last year thanks to my volunteering I was appointed to the board of directors for Opportunities Las Vegas which is an NPO that did a lot of work with homeless people. Sadly I had to leave since I moved here but the same spirit remains in me and I love helping people whenever I can.
Hands down the number 1 thing I find attractive on a woman is a. Nice. Big. Brain. Not to say that physical attraction isn't also necessary, But no matter how attractive you are if you lack smarts and don't like learning then we'll likely just annoy each other.
If I've messaged you first then it's a very rare thing. I'm not doing online dating just so I can hit on a bunch of random attractive people. If I wanted to do that there's plenty of bars/clubs I could waste my time at. I like the practicality of being able to get to know someone a little bit before talking to them. Especially since I've been on plenty of first dates with people who were perfectly nice, but that I was not the least bit compatible with and would have known that if I had known up front that their favorite TV show was Keeping Up With the Kardashians (if you watch it sometimes that's fine. But if it's in your top 5 favorites we won't get along) or something similar.
Also I admit that OKCupid is only pseudo-science but there is a small correlation factor so if our match percentage is less then 70% and you message me I will be perfectly nice and most likely respond (unless I'm busy) and try to chat, but likely we will be friends at best (no matter how attractive you are)