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colojerobronx

47 M Northampton, MA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:23am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Law
Income
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
(If the lack of photos on my profile is a deal breaker, I understand. I am
happy to share photos to those who ask. The reality of my current life situation doesn't allow me to be "out" about my poly lifestyle.)

I'm married, my wife and I have been together for over 20 years, she's my best friend and as I see it, my life partner. I can't imagine anything that would change that! I seek to meet courageous open minded poly-ish, bi-ish women to become a part of our small circle of friends with the possibility of evolving into a relationship that is fun, intimate and fulfilling for everyone involved.

It's is not our first (non traditional) relationship. We had a great relationship with a wonderful woman who moved away. She was lovely, and caring and really set the bar high for how fulfilling these types of relationships could be. We're still in contact with her, but we miss her dearly.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working full time, raising a family. Trying to smell the roses as life speeds by.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, fixing things, looking for solutions to problems, and understanding that sometimes you can't fix everything, even if you prepare a fabulous meal, and you just have to listen.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I project a lot of confidence. People often think I'm taller or bigger than I actually am.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Wife
Kids
Intimacy
Tranquility
Travel
Sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Trying to be honest with myself and the people around me. Trying to ask for 100% of what I want, understanding that I probably won't get that and negotiating for the rest.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Looking for people watching opportunities with my wife and a special friend.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
1.) If you've gotten this far.
2.) You understand that I'm actually looking for a relationship and not just a sex act.
3.) If forming a bond of friendship and intimacy with a fun, adventurous, monogamish couple sounds like something that you'd like to explore.
4.) You have any questions that you'd like me/ us to answer.