Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
(If the lack of photos on my profile is a deal breaker, I
understand. I am
happy to share photos to those who ask. The reality of my current
life situation doesn't allow me to be "out" about my poly
I'm married, my wife and I have been together for over 20 years,
she's my best friend and as I see it, my life partner. I can't
imagine anything that would change that! I seek to meet courageous
open minded poly-ish, bi-ish women to become a part of our small
circle of friends with the possibility of evolving into a
relationship that is fun, intimate and fulfilling for everyone
It's is not our first (non traditional) relationship. We had a
great relationship with a wonderful woman who moved away. She was
lovely, and caring and really set the bar high for how fulfilling
these types of relationships could be. We're still in contact with
her, but we miss her dearly.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working full time, raising a family. Trying to smell the roses as
life speeds by.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, fixing things, looking for solutions to problems, and
understanding that sometimes you can't fix everything, even if you
prepare a fabulous meal, and you just have to listen.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I project a lot of confidence. People often think I'm taller or
bigger than I actually am.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Trying to be honest with myself and the people around me. Trying to
ask for 100% of what I want, understanding that I probably won't
get that and negotiating for the rest.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Looking for people watching opportunities with my wife and a
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
1.) If you've gotten this far.
2.) You understand that I'm actually looking for a relationship and
not just a sex act.
3.) If forming a bond of friendship and intimacy with a fun,
adventurous, monogamish couple sounds like something that you'd
like to explore.
4.) You have any questions that you'd like me/ us to answer.
5.) If you drive a hybrid, please contact me!
6.) If you think you drink more alcohol that you "should."
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