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colonelfairfax

56 M San Mateo, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 18
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
“I always just hoped that, that I'd meet some nice friendly girl, like the look of her, hope the look of me didn't make her physically sick, then pop the question and... um... settle down and be happy. It worked for my parents. Well, apart from the divorce and all that!”
What I’m doing with my life
I am 55, single, straight, monogamous. I am the proud father of three fabulous children who spend most of their week with me. I am divorced, but on good terms with my children's mother.

I am a classical and church pianist, opera singer and conductor, choir director and public school music teacher.

I love walking in nature, bicycling, forests, mountains, beaches and the ocean, good wine, good beer, good conversation, traveling and seeing new places even within the Bay Area.

I love going to watch theatre, symphony, and opera, though I don't go often enough. I love traveling, though I don't do that often enough, either.
I’m really good at
Anything musical. And, pretty good at fixing things around the house.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm usually surprised that they notice me at all. I can hide in plain sight pretty well.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Lord of the Rings; The Bible According to Mark Twain; The sign and the Seal; any of several books by Robert Fulghum;
Movies: The Hunt for Red October; The Man Who Would Be King; Star Wars IV (which was really the first one); Raiders of the Lost Ark; Indiana Jones and The Holy Grail;
Music: Baroque and Classical music on period instruments; Bach's B-minor Mass; Beethoven's Missa Solemnis; Classical guitar music; Gordon Lightfoot; Peter, Paul & Mary; Tom Paxton; Tom Lehrer; The Beatles;
Food: Any and all kinds; Omnivore here!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
That's just it. I spend far too much time thinking. It always get me into trouble.
On a typical Friday night I am
...home alone wishing I were out with you. (Or, performing in a show.)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I modeled my signature after the logo on the Peter, Paul & Mary albums. Anything more private will have to wait until we're in private. ;-)
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
...anything on this profile resonated, amused, tickled, or enlightened you. If you get the theatrical reference in my moniker, we're a perfect match!