33 Banbury, UK
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My self-summary
I can't see my likes so send me a message. Oh and only people in the UK please.

Ok I feel that after having some bad experiences online I need to make a few things clear: No I do not want to see a picture of your genitals, No I don't want to exchange dirty or sexual messages, no I do not just want sex. No I DO NOT want a threesome!!! I want romance and a relationship!!! I also hate time wasters. I am looking to meet up with people and date in real life. If this is not what you're looking for don't message me. Thanks.

Oh and I DO SMILE haha.

I have re-written my profile to see if I can prove my friends wrong.

I am open minded about who I date but you know, as well as I do, we all have this one person in mind when we think about who we’d love to meet. So I tell my friends (and mum) and they tell me “you’re being too picky, you’ll never find anyone if you don’t broaden your horizons, they don’t exist” But…But….. But what if they do exist and, what if that person is you and you happen to have clicked on my profile, what if you read what I had before and thought “no we won’t gel”. But you read this new version of what I’d like and think oh wow that’s me and you decide to contact me and something beautiful happens. Just, what if? You never know.

You don't just like slim women, I have curves. (Full body shots in pictures).

You want to take things at the right pace with someone. Not jump in right away but also want to meet someone who wants a relationship and is ready for the long term if that happened.

You’re searching for a soul to touch, a heart to feel and the warmth of a kiss that lasts an eternity.

You feel deeply and have deep emotions but have a hold on how you act. You have the capacity to care and love. You want an adult relationship where we communicate rather than act out.

You’re strong enough to allow yourself to be vulnerable. You have a past that taught you to be strong but never let it taint who you were. You understand we all have a past.

Most importantly you’re looking for someone just like me. Are you out there?
What I’m doing with my life
Currently training as a support worker. Volunteering with young people. Working with vulnerable/homeless young people. Human rights!!!
I’m really good at
Being able to talk to pretty much anyone! Listening, making people laugh, bringing people out of their shell, understanding and fighting for people with no voice. I think I'm a pretty good cook, had no complaints yet.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes, my tattoo (a Keats poem tattooed down my right arm) and my ability to talk to anyone.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I am a massive nerd and love books....Sci-fi and fantasy are at the top, along with poetry. There are too many books and movies to list. I love crime novels and read books by Jeffery Deaver, James Patterson and so on. I love Neil Gaiman, Terry Pratchett.... I love philosophy and read a lot of poetry. I love the classics. I LOVE second hand book shops, in fact I love all book shops and have been known to annoy people while shopping when I make a b line for the book shops. I'm quite happy to be left on my own in there though.

I love Rilke, Bronte, Wilde, Rosetti, Sitwell, Keats, Blake, Plath, Gaiman, Deaver, Byron, Poe, T.S. Eliot, Atwood, W.H. Auden, Emily Dickinson, Neil Gaiman, George R R Martin, Terry Pratchett, James Patterson, Jeffery Deaver.... so many.

Quick heads up "Wherefore art thou?" means WHY not where :)

I love all kinds of shows: Am a major Doctor Who fan, Star Trek, True Blood, Supernatural, Life On Mars, Hustle, Ally McBeal, Eli Stone, Grey's Anatomy, Body Of Proof, Friday Night Dinner, Inbetweeners, OITNB... I could go on.

Music.. I like anything from metal to classical: Queen, Leonard Cohen, The Doors, Led Zep, The Rolling Stones, Fleetwood Mac, The Moody Blues, Hozier, Tom Odell, Ed Sheeran, Florence & the Machine, Mumford & Sons, Steeleye Span, Paloma Faith, Lisa Hannigan, Pantera, Amanda Palmer, Ben Howard, Birdy, American Headcharge, Bob Dylan, Creedence Clearwater Revival, Disturbed, Emmanuel Jal, Fallout Boy, Foxy Shazam, Kate Rusby, Joni Mitchell, Jimi Hendrix, Lou reed, Machine Head.... I think you can see I have an eclectic taste is music, I could go on.
The six things I could never do without
My friends, my books, music, art, laughter and my humanity... I'm really not very materialistic but I guess I'd be a little lost without my phone.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Human rights, life, the universe and everything. Quite fond of philosophy and anything a little abstract.
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't really have a typical Friday night. It will definitely involve being tired!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
It wouldn't be private if I admitted it.
You should message me if
Well firstly if you find me attractive.
You think we might get on, you are passionate about any of the things I have listed and you fancy a chat.

I'm not skinny so if curves put you off then I'm not for you x