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33 Oxford, UK Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
May 20
Sapiosexual, Queer, Pansexual, Homoflexible
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Mostly vegan
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Firstly a few words on my sexuality. I go for personality. I find all kinds of people attractive for different reasons. I am just open to relationships based on the individual rather than because they have a certain label. Feel free to ask me about this I am happy to talk about it. No it doesn't mean I'll cheat on people!!! I am also not promiscuous!!! NO I DO NOT WANT A THREESOME!!!
Ok so enough of that......

Hello you clicked on my profile because you liked my face. You will now make judgements based on my other pictures and what I say about myself. You’ll see the line that I’m not skinny (if you only like skinny girls I'm not for you - proud of my curves - yes I do to to the gym) and you’ll realise I have tattoos and cats. You’ll probably either click off and go to the next face or decide to talk to me. Before you do that there are some things you should know about me:

I am strong, independent, confident, assertive, intelligent and articulate.
A huge geek!!! Vegan!!! Feminist! (I want equality, not dominance of or from any gender) I don't conform to the norm (I love how that rhymed).
I am left wing and not budging. I am very upfront about things.
I have a great sense of humour and don't take myself as seriously as it may seem.

Now, we might talk a little and feel a connection, we may decide we want to have a date and talk some more. We may end up on this date, even date 2, we may kiss and go away smiling. This is all lovely but It would be really awesome to meet my equal, the person to challenge me without being aggressive, to take things at the right pace with, someone with a backbone, some fire in their belly and the kind of life experience that has taught them yet not tainted them. Someone to talk about my day with. Someone who wants their own space and lets me have mine yet is dying to see me. Someone who wants to have adventures, Someone who doesn’t want to rush in right away but is open to the possibility of a future.

This is all very impossible I realise but if I don’t ask for what I want now, what would be the point of us talking?

Of course if you're a Timelord, ignore all of the above and bring the TARDIS!!!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working with vulnerable people. Human rights!!! I volunteer with St John Ambulance and love it. Currently looking into studying English Literature. Volunteering.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being able to talk to pretty much anyone! Listening, making people laugh, bringing people out of their shell, understanding and fighting for people with no voice.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes, my tattoo (a Keats poem tattooed down my right arm) and my ability to talk to anyone.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I am a massive nerd and love books....Sci-fi and fantasy are at the top, along with poetry. There are too many books and movies to list. I love crime novels and read books by Jeffery Deaver, James Patterson and so on. I love Neil Gaiman, Terry Pratchett.... I love philosophy and read a lot of poetry. I love the classics. I LOVE second hand book shops, in fact I love all book shops and have been known to annoy people while shopping when I make a b line for the book shops. I'm quite happy to be left on my own in there though.

I love Rilke, Bronte, Wilde, Rosetti, Sitwell, Keats, Blake, Plath, Gaiman, Deaver, Byron, Poe, T.S. Eliot, Atwood, W.H. Auden, Emily Dickinson...... the list goes on

Quick heads up "Wherefore art thou?" means WHY not where :)

I love all kinds of shows: Am a major Doctor Who fan, Star Trek, True Blood, Supernatural, Life On Mars, Hustle, Ally McBeal, Eli Stone, Grey's Anatomy, Body Of Proof, Friday Night Dinner, Inbetweeners... I could go on.

Music.. I like anything from metal to classical. From Joan Armatrading to Clapton to Elvis to Mozart to The Doors.

Food wise, I am vegan. But not the kind to preach.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends, my books, music, art, laughter and my humanity... I'm really not very materialistic but I guess I'd be a little lost without my phone.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Human rights, life, the universe and everything. Quite fond of philosophy and anything a little abstract.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't really have a typical Friday night. It will definitely involve being tired!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It wouldn't be private if I admitted it.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You think we might get on, you are passionate about any of the things I have listed and you fancy a chat. I am open to making friends of all kinds :)

I'm not skinny so if curves put you off then I'm not for you x