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27 M San Diego, CA

My Details

Last Online
Mar 25
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am Dan. When i was in third grade the only thing i wanted for my birthday was a weaving loom. I grew up on a lake. I am good with computers. I am an eagle scout. I know more than 30 kinds of knots and their uses. I just learned how to change my brakes and my alternator in my decrepit car.

Teaching and working with kids is how I stay sane. Something about their outlook on life and carefree-ness I cant help catching. I have never crashed into a moving object with my car, just stationary ones usually accompanied by bad weather. I collect canvasses that i find at thrift stores. I am bad at driving long distances.

I am very romantic and sexual at the same time. I am pansexual and polyamorous. I have only been in love twice. I love buying stupid shirts that are 80% off at stores. I lift weights often and don't really enjoy running. I have dressed in drag for the last three Halloweens. I make a ugly woman. That shouldn't surprise anyone.

I am current in a serious relationship with haya_ji. We are looking for at least one more in our relationship. Our dream is to have a big fixer upper house with a many people living and sharing.

I don't believe in gender roles. I like people that can spurn the system. I am proud of being well read. I never watch tv. I am a good cook but i don't really enjoy cooking often.

I am whimsical, deep, and sweet
What I’m doing with my life
Living. Duh.

Beside that school to learn, work to pay bills, and i do social stuff. whatever that means.
I’m really good at
Reading minds. Eating. Making people's days.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I really don't care what people think or say about me.

Also I am brutally honest. Take it or leave it.

I am also big. I am tall, pretty muscular and have a large frame. I take up a lot of space. Not really fat at all.

I have a very dry sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books:Why people believe weird things. The God Delusion. I love books about science or Some more of my SF favorites: Fire Upon the Deep, Stranger in a Strange Land, 1984, Animal Farm, and Time Enough for Love.

moovies: I like it when movies are different. Some examples: Hedwig and the Angry Inch, A Scanner Darkly, Castle in the Sky, The Great Escape, Children of Men, and Princess Bride. I love movies, so there are plenty more, but i don't want to list them all. I just watched Trainspotting and fell in love.

music: I'm easygoing, so pretty much anything. Some of my favorite bands are Cake, Beck, The Postal Service, Beatles, Queen, Daft Punk, Modest Mouse, Radiohead. My tastes are pretty spread out. Usually i listen to with a radio station seed of music by Cake, Beck, I Was a Cub Scout, Vampire Weekend, The Format, and some other favorites.

food: I love anything, though i prefer home cooked. I am not a bad cook myself and have learned quite a few dishes that are nice and cheap.
The six things I could never do without
A comfy chair
A hand to hold
A hearty dinner
A vibrant discussion
A challenge
A classroom
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life the Universe and Everything i suppose. Lately my pondering has included sexuality and politics especially. I love a good debate or discussion about something that is meaningful to both people involved. In fact, that is my favorite way to learn about different viewpoints. One thing i cannot stand is people who argue to win. I argue to learn and to potentially change or redefine my viewpoint.
On a typical Friday night I am
Spending time with close friends. We are most likely doing one of the following: playing dungeons and dragons, drinking past the point of intoxication, drinking diet coke and reading science books, arguing over how best to solve societies social ills after first trying to define them, resolving a fierce debate using Wikipedia.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am kind of sad that I moved to a new town and left all my good friends behind in Chicago.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 20–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You aren't afraid of tigers.

You are interesting.

You have an intense and unexplained desire to message me and tell me something ridiculous our outstanding. Dont think. Do it. Yes. I am talking to you and only you.