commasplice14
30 Toronto, Ontario, CA
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My self-summary
I would say that I am definitely ready to embark in a meaningful relationship. It’s actually something I would very much like to actively pursue. I do tend to take things a little slow because I really need to get inside someone’s head before I am ready for any real intimacy. But once I have decided I like you then I kind of hit warp speed. I am very attracted to intelligence, someone with a sense of humour and an open heart. I want to find someone I can just be with for hours and not say a word to. I want someone who doesn’t care about keeping up with the joneses, or your gym routine. I want to meet someone who understands that nothing is truly black and white, that we live in an infinite sea of greys. If you fit this bill, please message me.

I have been single for close to five years, but only because before my singlehood I was in a relationship that took up a large part of my twenties and I really needed the time after that ended to figure out who I am and what I want.

It was a long cynical ride through my twenties to really found out who I am. I mean, I am definitely still growing, learning and relearning but I have definitely found a solid foundation of who I am.

Being a writer is the one thing I absolutely did on my own and for myself. I am proud of the education that I pursued and of the countless publications, articles and the book I have written. However, I also discovered that once money is involved the passion somehow feels less intense. It’s something that I am currently trying to reconcile with.

I live on Queen West with my cats, Panda and Ninja. We spend many nights trying to figure out what to watch before we hit the bed and read a little before we fall asleep.

I find androgyny incredibly attractive but I am open to meeting all sorts of folk (men, women, cis or trans*)
What I’m doing with my life
I am a freelance writer. Sort of starting to think of other vocations.
I’m really good at
I am really good at getting up in the morning. I am great under pressure.
The first things people usually notice about me
I seem to make people think I am really good at being a millennial with a liberal arts degree. In reality, I am really fucking good at faking it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
There is always music on wherever I am. I am not very up to date with new music because I am constantly relistening to Patti Smith, Crystal Castles, Sleater Kinney, CHVRCVHES, Against ME!, Radiohead, Muse, Ohbijou, Lucius, Tool and others.

Avid listener of Radiolab, This American Life, Nerdist and various other CBC and NPR radio programs.
The six things I could never do without
This list is a lot like me, always in flux.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I am incredibly indecisive. So, I spend a lot of time trying to come to terms with anything.
On a typical Friday night I am
There is no typical. Well, except my cuddle party with Ninja and Panda
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I will give you two for the price of one:

I sit down to urinate.

I seem incapable of growing facial hair.
You should message me if
Only if you're up for an adventure. Let's do something unorthodox and just have fun.
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