Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
One day I just might actually rewrite my profile or delete it. At
the moment I am living and working in Saudi Arabia again. Life in
Bangkok was great, but the salary for teachers is quite low
Update: Life is moving quickly at the moment. After a few weeks in
the USA visiting friends and family I took a job in Bangkok. I will
be teaching English literature in a bilingual High School, starting
From what I can tell, I will be living in Pathum Thani.
Update: Finished my contract in Saudi and now I am back in
Update: I sold and gave away all of my stuff and moved to Saudi
Arabia for at least the next year (as of August). I am teaching
English at an Islamic university which is totally cool and a bit
funny since I am not Muslim or even religious.
Update: Some day this year I am going to sell or give away all of
my things and move to another country. I have done this 3 times now
and it frees the soul. I suppose I want to meet a woman who wants
to do the same thing at the same time. Urban, rural, international,
spiritual exploration to the nth degree. That's me.
Writing about myself is fun and dangerous. How does one accurately
talk about the good things without sounding egotistical?
I love to travel and have a compass in my heart that keeps pushing
me further and further away. For the last 3.5 years I have lived
and worked in SE Asia as an English teacher. I used to working as a
financial advisor before that, but there is not much of that person
left in me.
Life is about making friends, having experiences, and trying your
best to make each day count.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
At the moment I am at a crossroads in life. My soul is yearning for
travel and excitement. But my mind needs time to relax and plan for
the next stages. I recently moved back to Charlotte after a crazy
year of teaching English to business owners in Vietnam.
So I dream of new destinations and past exploits. I drink coffee. I
work a job I am good at but can't do forever (sales) because it
will give me the ability to travel and write and live and
Sometimes I blog
Sometimes I wonder in what context I could say, "and then the Queen
laid an egg."
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am really good at most things that involve paying attention,
analytical thinking, creativity, and adaptability. I suck at
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People notice my hair, my smile, and how laid back I am. It is
really hard to push my buttons. I have watched monks interact with
ladyboys in Thailand, met people who have lost arms and legs to
land mines, been stalked in Vietnam, had mushroom shakes in Laos,
cliff jumped in Railay, hiked mountains in Korea, and just
acquiesced to the awesomeness of life. So nothing really bothers
It doesn't meant that I accept everything and everyone. But I know
what things are not in my control and what things are. I also
constantly test my limits trying to make this world better; one cup
of coffee at a time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I have not read many good books recently but I am working on
writing a couple of books. My favorite foods are the street foods
of Asia, NY pizza, and Vietnamese Ca Phe Sua Da.
A List of things in no particular order:
Band of Horses
Battlestar (new one)
Dirty Dozen Brass Band
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
friends, love, summer, coffee, travel, laughter, my passport, hope,
the knowledge that thoughts become things. Oh, and I can't count to
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How lucky I am to have met some of the best people in the world. I
really would be nothing if not for the times spent growing with
friends. I think about writing poetry in Laos, hiking up mountains,
looking out over the Mekong River, sipping ca phe sua da in
Vietnam, massage on the beach in Thailand, and sunsets in the 4000
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I have no idea. One thing you will find about me is that I have no
sense of time. Once I stopped working at Merrill Lynch and moved to
Asia to teach English, I lost track of time. There is not
difference between the week and weekend. Each day is special and
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I snore sometimes (so I have been told). I am good at starting
over, and I probably flirt too much. Life is to short to have pride
or to be overly embarrassed.
You should message me if
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If you can imagine packing a bag and taking off with little
planning, little money, wide eyes, a fearless heart, no
expectations, global awareness, innate kindness, and the spirit of
Also if you think I'm cute. (Did I mention that I am funny?)
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