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28 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:10pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've lived all over California, mostly in inner cities but also some backcountry. Child of the working poor, read some books, witnessed and instigated some troubles, wandered out and saw a good chunk of the world, learned alot, and continue to search for something, though I'm still not really sure what.

I'm fascinated with network culture and postmodern fragmentation. People today have more mobility and information than ever before- I try to take advantage of that whenever possible so as to live and experience independently.

I build shit and think about stuff every day. Layers and stacks.

I contain stereotypical multitudes.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
For the past couple years I've occupied alot of my time as a metal fabricator (welder) for both art and industry. I love what I do. Any time I get home covered in dust and grease, having built something elegant or useful, it almost surely was a good day.

Studied political science in my early 20s, but my anticapitalist positions didn't go over well with most of the faculty, and the quasi-corporate culture was driving me insane.

Work hard, create stuff daily, seek out unique and unconventional company, party more than I should, and take life as it comes, with few worries or expectations.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Relating with folks. I've had friends of almost all varieties of ethnic and sexual/gender orientations. I pride myself at taking people as they are and not judging or imposing on them. I know I'm a cis white male and the bullshit associated with that, I've read the critical literature and had the tough discussions, and I try my best to check that shit and be aware of how I'm presenting and interacting.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Deep voice
Work boots
Listening more than speaking

Grew up in a grimey hood in East San Jose, so I can be a bit rough around the edges. It sometimes throws people off when I start talking about art, politics, or some nerdy internet meme.

Pshaw on their biases.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
- Will read most anything that isn't ignorant. Special affinities for socio-political topics, art books, experimental fiction, cyberpunk scifi, complexity theory, and poetry.

- Cooking usually means a big pot of cabbage soup or bean stew. Lots of rice. Peasant food basically, hearty and cheap. Otherwise I survive on taco trucks and banh mi.

- Glitch noise and alternative hip-hop are my working music. Mornings start with old-timey blues. Soft spots for punk, extreme metal, industrial, and Nor Cal gangster rap as reminders of people and places and things now past.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
+ I'll just put 'Tools' as one item, cause there's hundreds of em...
+ Coffee, as a hopeless caffeine addict
+ Afternoon naps
+ Solid American-made boots
+ Notebooks, sketchbooks, and my preferred pens
+ Engaging reading material
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What smart idea or person just interested me
What amazing art just inspired me
My current or next project / job / gig
The emerging neofeudal dystopia
Autonomous Zones
How I can reach out to more queer folks
How beautiful trees are
How vibrant graffiti is
Networked chaotic systems
Where the hell I left my lighter...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In a warehouse. This might involve working, partying, or some combination of the two.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-- Not hard requirements, but definite plusses --
You'd choose Oakland over the City any day
You make stuff
You're independent, creative, or unusual
You sympathize with anarchist thought
You think TV is a mind-numbing and life-stealing opiate
You'll laugh with me at the absurdity of it all

I can always use more friends with artistic or Leftist inclinations.....