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con81

28 / F / straight / Single

Memphis, Tennessee

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
—
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Dislikes children
Pets
Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am artsy, fartsy, and weird.

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My Self-Summary

I'm into artistic endeavors of all kinds. I love to learn and get lost in reading Wikipedia on occasion. Art in its many forms is something I feel passionate about. Going out and dancing is what I love to do for fun whenever I get a chance.

What I’m doing with my life

Currently I'm working, saving up, and going back to school. I plan on studying to be a graphic artist. I want to try web design, graphic design, and/or film making. I've wanted to be a music video director since I was 12. I plan on moving from Memphis to New York City if there's no market for my taste here once I graduate.

I’m really good at

I'm really good at talking. A lot. Seriously, I think I'm good at creative ideas. Teaching myself when I set my mind to it. Stuff like that.

The first things people usually notice about me

My boobs, probably.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Favorite books:
The Incarnations of Immortality series by Piers Anthony
American Gods and Anansi Boys by Neil Gaiman
Good Omens by Terri Pratchett and Neil Gaiman
Wicked and Confessions of an Ugly Stepsister by Gregory McGuire.

Favorite Movies:
The Godfather I and II
The Matrix
Memento
Scarface
Kill Bill and other Quentin Tarantino films
Movies that have won Oscars (I can be pretentious)
Kevin Smith films.

According to Last.fm: http://www.last.fm/user/con4cyn/
Mindless Self Indulgence
Beck
Radiohead
Thom Yorke
Goldfrapp
Basement Jaxx
Air
Nine Inch Nails
Muse
Modeselektor

The six things I could never do without

My cellphone
My computer
A way around this world
Music whether to listen to or to make it
Shelter
Sustenance

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My place in this world.

On a typical Friday night I am

Depends. I'm either at home, in bed. Out at a friend's house, or out drinking and enjoying a club atmosphere.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

You might have realized that I'm not your typical...anything, especially your typical black girl. Proud of it. Why would I want to be typical?

You should message me if

Talk to me if you have an open-mind, cynical with a need to change the world around you, and love art and music.

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