I've been thinking a lot of having a dating ratings system. I've met a lot of guys. Most of them were cool, but with seedy intentions. Some were confused, and some were plain assholes. The #1 thing I'm looking for in a guy is for them to not have any "hangups". When I say "hangups" here, I mean other girls from the past, present, and/or future that he has not gotten over. If you have a girl who is your ideal of what a girl should be that's fine. If I'm not that girl don't talk to me. Really. Fuck buddies are nice, but I, myself, feel like "fuck buddies" is a cop out for the real thing. You don't think you're good enough for what you really want? Also, just because we met online doesn't mean an instant fuck-fest. Sure, you're looking for some fun. There is the option when we make our profiles to point out that that is what we're looking for by being on here. I don't believe that I selected that option myself. *checks profile* New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance pen pals...Nope! No fuck buddy! I've met some really cool guys on this site, and found that their personalities match my own. The thing is, though, that once there is that indication to me that all they want is a "fuck buddy" it totally diminishes them as a person to me. I know guys will be guys, but I'd rather become friends with someone than just fuck them. I'd rather treat them as a person like I want to be treated than just use them for their dick even though I'm sure most guys say they wouldn't care. Then guys wonder why girls pull the same fuck 'em and leave 'em bullshit.