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50 Chicago, IL Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 36–49
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:05pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have had the same profile for a few years so decided to change it up a bit.

A new chapter of my life is unfolding. It should be a fun ride and looking for a partner to join me.

I am a laid-back person with passion for travel, urban adventures, intense conversations over a bottle of wine. On any given Saturday night, you can find at a new restaurant trying the signature dish, at a theater or film event, or just taking a random road trip.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I did it! Finished the Chicago Hot Chocolate 5K race! After training for 3 months, the accomplishment is rewarding.

After years of dabbling in theater and film, I am spending more time writing and developing film projects.

Sailing, a long-time interest, has become a new passion. I get out on the lake as often as possible.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening and giving advice.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music: The Pretenders, Andreas Bocelli, Cecelia Bartoli, U2, The Eagles, AC/DC, Joan Jett, Pogues, Clancy Brothers, Muddy Waters, Lenny and the Squigtones, P!nk.

Movies: Cinema Paradiso, Stalag 17, It's a Wonderful Life, The Matrix (the first installment, the last two parts of the trilogy were disappointing), Shawshank Redemption, Star Wars Episode V and III, Run Lola Run, American History X, Un Couer en Hiver, La Belle Noisuese, Field of Dreams, Rounders, Y Tu Mama Tambien, Anything by the Marx Bros. Just added a new favorite this past year, a Chinese movies, Rooftops, it is a Kung-fu musical!

Food: After being away from Chicago for a decade, it was nice to return to the foodie heaven in Chicago. Moving to a more organic and natural diet. I still like a good burger or BBQ! Been to Allinea, awesome!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Something new to explore
2. Access to movies or theater
3. Interesting company
4. Music
5. Warm comfy bed to return home to
6. My niece's smile
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- Interesting stories I can tell.
- Exotic places to add to my passport.
- How to make a difference in this crazy and wonderful world!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I love to to do something more low key after a long work week - happy hour with friends or an opening night of great theater or film.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That will take a bottle of wine first!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- Have a need to add stamps to your passport.
- If you are fun-loving and have an adventurous spirit
- Have a new restaurant you want to explore