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  • Ages 20–35
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Last online
Aug 1
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Working on Ph.D program
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English, French (Okay)
My self-summary
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Aspiring academic. Hockey player. Former musician. Likes art, math, good prose, weightlifting, and red wine.
What I’m doing with my life
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Getting a PhD in philosophy, drinking wine, exercising, and listening to intense music of one kind or another.
I’m really good at
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detecting psychological archetypes and using them to make predictions. logic. starting conversations. finding common ground. making dirty puns.
The first things people usually notice about me
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An old man with a thick eastern European accent once asked me whether I was Hungarian. I told him that my grandparents were from there. He responded: "You look it. In the face."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Lucky Jim, by Kingsley Amis, Cormac McCarthy, David Foster Wallace, Nabokov, Borges, Walker Percy, W.V. Quine, and occasionally some other philosophy. Various textbooks on logic and/or math.

Music: various kinds of metal (death, black, doom, thrash, etc.), southern rock, classic rock, old school hip hop, bach, brahms, beethoven, tchaikovsky, sibelius, bartok, mendelssohn, arvo part, steve reich, philip glass, esp. Einstein on the Beach.

Movies: Taxi Driver, Snatch, Lock Stock, The Departed, numerous 80s action movies
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
exercise. intellectual challenges. coffee. close friends. humor. clarity.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether the Blackhawks are going to win the stanley cup. What I'm going to eat for my next meal. Whether empty names have non-trivial semantic properties.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drinking wine and trying not to think about all the work I have to do, sometimes while re-watching an episode of True Detective.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I haven't cried in almost 15 years, but not for lack of reason or effort.
You should message me if
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you've read Lucky Jim. you're disenchanted with academia. you can make a good pun. you love drinking beer in the middle of the day while listening to lynyrd skynyrd. you want to come to a metal concert with me. you're interesting, a bit of a handful, but not pretentious.