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28 New Haven, CT Man


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  • Ages 20–35
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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
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Working on Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English, French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I grew up playing sports and music, and now I've found myself in grad school for philosophy. I have mixed feelings about it. I love the ideas, but I don't love the pretensions or headiness that come with being an academic. I'm not always successful, but I try to keep myself pretty grounded.

In what little spare time I have, I go to concerts, watch hockey, and keep up with my friends.
What I’m doing with my life
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Getting a PhD in philosophy, drinking wine, exercising, and listening to intense music of one kind or another.
I’m really good at
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detecting psychological archetypes and using them to make predictions. logic. starting conversations. finding common ground. making dirty puns.
The first things people usually notice about me
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intellectual acumen? intense style? alright, alright, big jewish nose.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Lucky Jim, by Kingsley Amis, Cormac McCarthy, David Foster Wallace's non-fiction, Nabokov, Borges, Walker Percy, W.V. Quine, and occasionally some other philosophy. Various textbooks on logic and/or math.

Music: various kinds of metal (death, black, doom, thrash, etc.), southern rock, classic rock, old school hip hop, bach, brahms, beethoven, tchaikovsky, sibelius, bartok, mendelssohn, arvo part, steve reich, philip glass, esp. Einstein on the Beach.

Movies: Taxi Driver, Snatch, Lock Stock, The Departed, numerous 80s action movies
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
exercise. intellectual challenges. coffee. close friends. humor. clarity.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether the Blackhawks are going to win the stanley cup. What I'm going to eat for my next meal. Whether empty names have non-trivial semantic properties.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drinking wine and trying not to think about all the work I have to do, sometimes while re-watching an episode of True Detective.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm more sensitive than I seem at first, just not about the things that don't matter.
You should message me if
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you've read Lucky Jim. you're disenchanted with academia. you can make a good pun. you love drinking beer in the middle of the day while listening to lynyrd skynyrd. you want to come to a metal concert with me. you're interesting, a bit of a handful, but not pretentious.