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concupisys

35 M Toronto, Ontario, CA

I’m looking for

  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 30–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 25
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Skinny
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from space camp
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
i'm not on here trying to sell myself, i'm here to BE myself.... that means in the course of reading this profile (should you choose to), you will most likely encounter things about me that you either don't like or would rather not know.... but i digress: i would personally rather hear a bitter truth than a sugary-sweet lie.... it takes guts to go against the grain and be upfront about and embrace it.... and well.... spineless people and i never really got along very well anyway.... i consider myself to be a realist and not a romanticist, and do not cut myself short by describing myself through a series of cliches and affirmations.... these are my words and this is my story....

i've always considered myself an outsider to life.... not identifying very well with others, and never feeling any true sense of 'belonging' to anything.... (heck: even after coming out and thinking that things would 'get better', i still contemplate retreating back in to the closet on a daily basis....) sure i get involved with things, but i do so somehow without being able to connect to them.... rather, i spend more time observing the world around me.... always looking at the bigger picture, always making comparisons, and always on the lookout for those crazy anomalies that make life so interesting....

having said that, i'm not on here looking for anything in particular.... since i don't believe that monogamy actually exists in the homosexual world, i am not looking to date or be in a relationship.... i'm not looking for romance (as i'm too jaded for all that stuff), and am most definitely not looking for any ideals or cliches when it comes to people and/or life.... if i wanted all that, i'd be a reality television star.... rather, i'm looking for good conversations, good friends (digital or analog), and good rolls in the hay....

quirks aside, i'm still very much a human being.... i think.... highly introverted, spiritual, creative, articulate, and facetious.... i'm told i'm funny, and full of all kinds of bizarre information about even more bizarre things.... i dislike clutter, large crowds, frivolity, gluttony, and excess.... (and you would be surprised how little i can live with, even in a large urban centre where so much of what i consider to be excessive and frivolous is seen as 'standard' to most people....) i'm highly sensitive to vibes, and regard the metaphysical with as much attention as i pay to the other 5 senses.... one would be amazed at how much truth can be found on that plane.... you just need a spaceship to get there.... :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
well, my soul just came back from a much needed break from my mind and body to explore some new ways of feeling about planet earth and all its goings on.... it was an overwhelming journey, but i'm hoping that in turn it will enable my mind to explore some new ways of thinking and my body to explore some new ways of being.... to help enhance this newly formed symbiosis, i'm working hard at utilizing my strengths as best i can to make the world around me a better place by getting more deeply immersed in the non-profit industry and sharing my fortune of skill, time, attention and love with those who are ready and able to accept it.... with their help, i hope to build a sense of dignity, self-confidence, and conscious awareness that touches as many people's lives as possible....

outside of that, i'm also building a new sense of comfort in my modest home through cooking, dancing, meditating, and manifesting my deepest and most personal desires to the universe....
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
alienating people, appearing and disappearing at random, writing absurdities, liquid pop-locking and beatboxing, engaging in flourishing streams of intelligent text-based conversation, being misunderstood, falling through the cracks, stepping stones, harmonizing....
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that i look way too young to be so old.....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: dynamic stillness: the art and practice of trika yoga, by swami chetnananda (it's yoga without 'posing', or being a poser for that matter....); bad wisdom, by bill drummond and mark manning (of the timelords and the KLF - justified ancients of mu mu); oh! the places you'll go!, by dr. seuss.... (i tend to buy my books out of bargain bins rather than the bestseller list or what oprah winfrey happens to be reading..... so much great writing and storytelling can be found in them....)

films: the naked gun (any one of the 3 will do), airplane!, kentucky fried movie, spaceballs, american beauty, white chicks, short bus, thank you for smoking.... it's pretty eclectic, though it's rare that you'll see me sit down for a hollywood blockbuster..... (ie: i have not seen any of the harry potter, DC/marvel comic, zombie apocalypse or LOTR films, or anything else of that nature....)

television programs: golden girls, law&order, top chef, afterlife (the UK series with andrew lincoln), mrs. brown's boys, CSINY, miss marple, all kinds of cartoons and subtitled anime.... (aside from the fact that dubbed anime sounds awkward, i can brush up on my literacy skills and learn japanese while i watch.....)

music (in no particular order except for mj+jj):
michael and janet jackson and all their crazy siblings, ulrich schnauss, groove armada, daft punk, robert miles, peter gabriel, a-ha, armand van helden, simply red, the brand new heavies, samuel barber, stevie wonder, earth wind and fire, dionne farris ivana santilli, sasha and digweed, lexaunculpt, scott hardkiss, queen, underworld, sade, maxwell, dimitri from paris, boyz II men, erykah badu, jill scott, pm dawn, arrested development, black box, la tour, jamiroquai, tori amos, kruder and dorfmeister, aphex twin, st. germain, TDF, chicane, rick astley, tears for fears, hybrid, george benson, frankie goes to hollywood, ralph tresvant, sarah mclaughlan, alana davis, betthoven, derrick may, donna summer, erik mongrain, brandy, angie stone, goldie, orbital, t-1000, phil collins, barry white and the love unlimited orchestra, lucy pearl, tiesto, the art of noise, george michael, massive attack, aaliyah, pearl jam, the verve, the KLF, cassius, madonna, dvorák, senor cocconut, oasis, shirley bassey, mozart, prince, lemon jelly, mary j. blige, the avalanches, the cure, stan getz, yolk, annie lennox, thievery corporation, kool and the gang, maysa, john b, seal, ethereal 77, the pointer sisters, faithless, depeche mode, brandy, cathy dennis, outkast, missy elliot, ....hmm.... i'm going to have to continue this later.... it just keeps growing and might take me hours to finish....

DJ's (YES DJ'S!!!!!): scott hardkiss, T-1000, elcarundo, sasha and digweed, dimitri from paris, aaron simpson, dj red lion, robb g, eyedol, worltrance, deko-ze(before he went circuit), jeremy healy, carl cox, krafty kutz, jazzy jeff, greg benz, mark oliver, and any other dj who can spin a mad intelligent catharsis of eclectic beats, melodies and vocals that send me in to a state of sonic oblivion.....

food: chocolate, sushi, bizzare imported noodle bowls (i am a sucker for a good MSG-laden kimchi), gummies, fresh fruit and veg, all the delicious foods that i cook for myself from scratch (y'all would LUURRVE my sunday roasts, curries, soups, cookies, stir-frys, and i make killer cinnamon buns....), and steak.... gotta have my steak.... as long as it's got FLAVOUR and isn't pretentious, i have a wide variety of culinary tastes..... though i must admit that the food network has made me grow a major disposition for bacon, cupcakes, and bacon IN cupcakes.... i should also note that i don't really enjoy eating out in restaurants.... i have the odd shawarma or KFC binge when i get the hankering, but i enjoy those things in the comfort of my small dwelling where i can consume it like a savage....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
...music (and my super-awesome sony font-pad headphones that offer big sound at a reasonable price and don't make me scared of getting robbed on the subway),

my espresso machine (and i KNOW how to use it....),

dollarama (and its utopia of munchies, useful gadgets, and craft supplies),

casual vanilla sex (and my lack of shame for having it as i walk home the next day.... i have not, do not, and will not participate in anal sex of any kind.... ever.... i am forced to eat shit and like it enough in the figurative sense, thank you....)

my netbook (as it is my hub of communication and entertainment media),

my alone time (as i am a textbook introvert.... if you don't get what that means, i suggest googling an article called 'caring for your introvert' by the atlantic monthly.... changed my life....)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
whether the men, women and children in some of your photos know that they have been publicly plastered on a gay dating website, and whether they are ok with that.....

why so many easy going, down to earth people who love life and live it to the fullest still feel the need to be on here....

how anyone can possibly live a 100% drama free life....

why iphone users can't seem to live without them....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
alone, thinking, and distracting myself with media and food alongside my equally as introverted feline who is usually hiding in a cupboard somewhere....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
in all my 35 years (or at least since puberty) i have never had the need to use shaving cream to get the sparse boyish whisker stubble off my face.... it is virtually non-existent.... quite ironic because i could braid cornrows on my crotch, but that is just one of the many things that makes me such an anomaly....
You should message me if
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you're friendly, comfortable expressing yourself through a multitude of mediums, and your profile does not contradict itself from text field to text field and stat to stat.... anyone who actually reads profiles should know what i'm talking about, and i've got the balls to call you out when it becomes apparent that you haven't read mine....