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confluence1

59 M San Jose, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 54–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:26pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
$150,000–$250,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm an ex in New Yorker. I went to college in the Midwest and grad school in the Bay Area. I played most major sports in HS or college and a couple of them at the professional level. Although sports have been a big part of my life, they don't define who I am. I work out some but I'm not fanatical about it. I'd like to eat healthier, but since I don't smoke or drink, I tend to indulge my eating habits a bit. After 20 years as the CFO of several hi tech firms in Silicon Valley, I decided to venture out on my own. I'm a self employed financial consultant working with small, publicly traded companies. I do SEC and Sarbanes-Oxley compliance work, but my job, like sports, doesn't define who I am. I'm a good communicator (I write great emails), a great conversationalist, a caring person, a best friend, and someone who'll always tell you the truth even if it's not what you want to hear. My personality is pretty laid back. I won't jump out of an airplane or do Niagara Falls in a barrel with you, but there's a world of things we can discover together.

Who am I looking for? I don't have an "ideal woman", but one who is ideal for me. I would like to meet someone who's educated, articulate, attractive. She is flexible and can adapt to any situation. Her wit may border on light sarcasm and she can give and take equally. She has accomplished things, is well read, cares about people and the world we live in. She is non judgmental and will vote even though she may not like the candidates or issues. She is comfortable in jeans or dressed for our special times together. She will enjoy our times together and she will know intuitively that I will respect those times she wishes for herself. We will share similar values but will have enough differences that discovering each other will be an exciting journey. She doesn't need a man to make her whole but would love to have someone that complements her life. She will have a love for travel, the outdoors and believes in her heart that cultural differences enrich our lives and touches each of us in our core. Come join me in this search for each other.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm enjoying my life. I've recently rebonded with my 29 year old daughter and we do lot's of things together. She's a voracious reader so we spend a lot of time in bookstores. We also spend a lot of time just talking and I'm getting to know her but this time as an adult and that's pretty cool.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Many things. I know dating sites are sales tools and I should be extolling my virtues but I'm a bit old school and think that you'll recognize what I'm good at when you see it. If you don't recognize it then I'm probably not good at it!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes - they're blue!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
There's a special series of 7 movies that were produced in England by Hammer Studios that I really like. If you want to know more, you'll have to contact me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family
Friends
Travel
Passion
Humor
Golf
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next travel adventure
My daughter
Work
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having dinner with my daughter!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'll have to know you better to tell you!
You should message me if
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What I've written resonates with you!