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confluentone

56 / M / Straight / Available

Lees Summit, Missouri

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:20pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Two-year college
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
How does one truly describe themselves in words? Not possible really but here we are! Key words that seem to fit for me would be introspective, questioning, sensual, loving, witty, forward thinking, intelligent, experimental, communicative.

I love wearing many hats and have a career that allows me to do that, managing a small business and several employees. Financially healthy, mostly physically healthy ( I have some low back disc stress I am working to heal), and mentally/emotionally healthy too. I would not call myself upbeat, but also not depressive. I have a serious yet life positive attitude, so would ask that you be the same.

I am a builder type, enjoy making or repairing things. Also love nature, animals, plants, and prefer taking a nature hike or working in the garden to going out in the cultural world most of the time, but that can be fun too. I like to eat organic, don’t like conventional media forms, would rather read or listen to music than watch tv. Or perhaps have a nice conversation with a new or old friend.

I enjoy the world of mysticism and spirituality, no special beliefs, just a long term natural interest in such things. I think it is limiting to live one’s life by any belief system, traditional or alternative. For those into such things I have Sun/Moon/Mercury in Scorpio and a Leo ascendant, am a Red Fire Monkey, a 5 on the Enneagram, and my numerology life path # is 7, the Chariot in the tarot. Now you can figure me out, just be sure to let me know any secrets you discover!

I am not here with any specific relationship goal other than to add some new friends to my life initially, but am prepared for and welcome intimacy where it feels like it desires to be expressed. I am not a “player” as women say, looking for more entries to put in the black book I don’t own, and you can expect honesty about my life as I will expect the same from you. I look for quality relationships that work for people, and I seek emotionally mature, growth oriented, forward thinking people with vision to add to my life experience. If you are such a person then please contact me!
What I’m doing with my life
Building a new house, accommodating needed changes in relationships, adjusting to the increase of business and growth in my career, dreaming new dreams for the future.
I’m really good at
A lot of things really, I'm the essence of a "jack of all trades and master of none" kind of guy. I may be especially good at researching things and repairing things.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Lately I have been into beyond duality authors like Jed McKenna and David Carse, off beat movies with a sophisticated plot, and many forms of music except heavy metal and country. Drawn more to relaxing kinds of chill and some ambient lately, must need the extra relaxation.
Don't watch tv but love movies with intelligent plots.
For food, I keep it organic and pretty simple if possible, but eat just about anything that is not an endangered species. Small meat meals with lots of veggies works best for me. I love an occasional dark coffee, herbal and green teas, and frequently enjoy a cold beer or two in the evenings.
The six things I could never do without
Organic food, a healthy sex life, a great dark beer, my friends, my pets, and a fast internet connection.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why most humans can't seem to break through our fears about living life fully with eyes wide open and continue to choose limiting beliefs to view their life through.......and where I fit into that thought!
On a typical Friday night I am
Who knows? It is my longest work day typically though, so often just some form of chilling out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Hmmm.....I'll think on this for now.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 38–62
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
These words should strike a chord within you!