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  • Ages 35-62
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 13
Open relationship
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Two-year college
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello to all who visit!
Such a curious and funny exercise, writing self descriptions. As I practice mindfulness regularly I am constantly reminded of the fact that I really don’t know who I am, I only think this or that about myself, and that what I think I am is just another limiting belief. So with that in mind, I am a work in progress first and foremost! Who knows what I might become?

I like to savor the experience of life, feel it deeply, fully and joyfully. And there is nothing more wonderful that I know of than sharing intimacy with another that you resonate with in whatever way.

I am polyamourous, which for me means that I feel relationships should exist in the way that they realistically and actually work for people and not necessarily the way that I might think they should. Not everything I need in intimate relationship has to come from one person, nor do I expect to always satisfy everything you may need as well. If we are emotionally mature enough to deal with what comes up, it takes a lot of pressure and expectation off of relating.

Other words that come to mind that describe my life expression are curious, deep thinking, sensual, sexual, communicative, and I have a very practical side that constantly is in some degree of turmoil with my idealistic dreamy side.

I also like to stay active by hiking, biking, working in the garden, along with some yoga and stretching. I love to build things and my main hobbies are photography and being an audiophile.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I run a business, so that consumes a lot and also starting to create a permaculture plan for a property in the country that I recently acquired, I love learning new techniques to enhance human sustainability that work with nature instead of a desire to control and dominate it, so this will be quite an experiment!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing through the surface of things. Also I'm the essence of a "jack of all trades and master of none" kind of guy. I may be especially good at researching things and repairing things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Eyes I suppose, mine are blue or blue/green.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't tend to have favorites of anything, I thrive best on new experiences and trying different things, so "favorites" don't mean a lot.
Currently reading The More Beautiful World our Hearts Know is Possible by Charles Eisenstein. Like all kinds of movies, nothing violent, scary or silly.
For food, I keep it organic and pretty simple if possible. Small meat meals with variety of veggies works well for me. I love rich dark coffee, dark chocolate, herbal and green teas, and frequently enjoy a nice ale or glass of wine or two in the evenings.
Listening to music is one of my favorite things to do, all kinds, but country and rap wear me out pretty fast.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Don't know about "never", but would sure have a hard time without organic food, a healthy sex life, a great dark beer, family/friends, and a fast internet connection. Not necessarily in that order!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why most of us humans have so much difficulty letting go of life patterns that clearly don't really work for us, and what we can do to facilitate positive change.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Who knows? It is my longest work day typically though, so often just some form of chilling out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I get a panic attack sometimes when addressing groups of people.
You should message me if
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If you too are drawn to unconventional things in life!