Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello to all who visit!
Such a curious and funny exercise, writing self descriptions. As I
practice mindfulness regularly I am constantly reminded of the fact
that I really don’t know who I am, I only think this or that about
myself, and that what I think I am is just another limiting belief.
So with that in mind, I am a work in progress first and foremost!
Who knows what I might become?
I like to savor the experience of life, feel it deeply, fully and
joyfully. And there is nothing more wonderful that I know of than
sharing intimacy with another that you resonate with in whatever
I am polyamourous, which for me means that I feel relationships
should exist in the way that they realistically and actually work
for people and not necessarily the way that I might think they
should. Not everything I need in intimate relationship has to come
from one person, nor do I expect to always satisfy everything you
may need as well. If we are emotionally mature enough to deal with
what comes up, it takes a lot of pressure and expectation off of
Other words that come to mind that describe my life expression are
curious, deep thinking, sensual, sexual, communicative, and I have
a very practical side that constantly is in some degree of turmoil
with my idealistic dreamy side.
I also like to stay active by hiking, biking, working in the
garden, along with some yoga and stretching. I love to build things
and my main hobbies are photography and being an audiophile.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I run a business, so that consumes a lot and also starting to
create a permaculture plan for a property in the country that I
recently acquired, I love learning new techniques to enhance human
sustainability that work with nature instead of a desire to control
and dominate it, so this will be quite an experiment!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing through the surface of things. Also I'm the essence of a
"jack of all trades and master of none" kind of guy. I may be
especially good at researching things and repairing things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Eyes I suppose, mine are blue or blue/green.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I don't tend to have favorites of anything, I thrive best on new
experiences and trying different things, so "favorites" don't mean
Currently reading The More Beautiful World our Hearts Know is
Possible by Charles Eisenstein. Like all kinds of movies, nothing
violent, scary or silly.
For food, I keep it organic and pretty simple if possible. Small
meat meals with variety of veggies works well for me. I love rich
dark coffee, dark chocolate, herbal and green teas, and frequently
enjoy a nice ale or glass of wine or two in the evenings.
Listening to music is one of my favorite things to do, all kinds,
but country and rap wear me out pretty fast.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Don't know about "never", but would sure have a hard time without
organic food, a healthy sex life, a great dark beer,
family/friends, and a fast internet connection. Not necessarily in
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why most of us humans have so much difficulty letting go of life
patterns that clearly don't really work for us, and what we can do
to facilitate positive change.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Who knows? It is my longest work day typically though, so often
just some form of chilling out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I get a panic attack sometimes when addressing groups of people.
You should message me if
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If you too are drawn to unconventional things in life!
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