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confluentone

58 Independence, MO Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–62
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Feb 25
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Two-year college
Job
Management
Income
Rather not say
Status
Open relationship
Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Far from a revolutionary activist, but equally far from a consensus view of society. When I try to step back and view what I am I see a somewhat bohemian, eclectic guy who is interested in staying mindful of our natural powers of common sense coupled with information from scientific investigation, and letting go of beliefs about life at all levels. From what I see, ALL beliefs fail to accurately describe this world, so why bother? Fortunately life does not ask us to figure it out in order to live.

I am looking for anyone who resonates with that, for friends and or lovers as the energy felt may suggest. I tend to be a more emotional man than many, but I don't imply that I have totally mastered that, just that I am aware of it. For that reason perhaps I tend to enjoy the company of females more, being different from many of my fellow males in that I also don't care much for sports, hunting, or Harleys.

I would be called polyamorous by many, but don't really like badges or labels, even alternative ones. It is just that monogamy has never appealed all that much to me, the idea that one can find one person that can bring all that we would like to experience in relationship sexually or otherwise seems quite unrealistic and naive in my experience. For this reason, I live an"unfenced" lifestyle, a word coined from a writer named J.J. Roberts and his book Sex 3.0, a good read for those who have always felt that our societal concepts about human relationships are not aligned with the truth of our human nature. Not that monogamy is a bad or wrong thing, if it works then it works, there is no such thing as a wrong relationship style as long as both are in agreement, but monogamy often seems to end up feeling suffocated and may breed excessive codependency. I am not married but currently in a relationship with a woman for many years who is aware of the fact that traditional relationship definitions do not appeal to me, as do all who know me.

The things I enjoy include walking, bicycle riding, photography, yoga/stretching, trying new restaurants and food, and having thoughtful philosophical discussions about our origins, the cosmos, and human nature in general.
What I’m doing with my life
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Starting to create a permaculture plan for a property in the country that I recently acquired, I love learning new techniques to enhance human sustainability that work with nature instead of a desire to control and dominate it, so this will be quite an experiment!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
A lot of things really, I'm the essence of a "jack of all trades and master of none" kind of guy. I may be especially good at researching things and repairing things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Not sure, guess I never have asked!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't tend to have favorites of anything, I thrive best on new experiences and trying different things, so "favorites" don't mean a lot.
Currently reading The More Beautiful World our Hearts Know is Possible by Charles Eisenstein. Like all kinds of movies, nothing violent, scary or silly.
For food, I keep it organic and pretty simple if possible. Small meat meals with variety of veggies works well for me. I love rich dark coffee, dark chocolate, herbal and green teas, and frequently enjoy a nice ale or glass of wine or two in the evenings.
Listening to music is one of my favorite things to do, all kinds, but country and rap wear me out pretty fast.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Don't know about "never", but would sure have a hard time without organic food, a healthy sex life, a great dark beer, my intimate friends, and a fast internet connection. Not necessarily in that order!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why most of us humans have so much difficulty letting go of life patterns that clearly don't really work for us, and what we can do to facilitate positive change.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Who knows? It is my longest work day typically though, so often just some form of chilling out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I get a panic attack sometimes when addressing groups of people.
You should message me if
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If you too are drawn to unconventional things in life!