Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Far from a revolutionary activist, but equally far from a consensus
view of society. When I try to step back and view what I am I see a
somewhat bohemian, eclectic guy who is interested in staying
mindful of our natural powers of common sense coupled with
information from scientific investigation, and letting go of
beliefs about life at all levels. From what I see, ALL beliefs fail
to accurately describe this world, so why bother? Fortunately life
does not ask us to figure it out in order to live.
I am looking for anyone who resonates with that, for friends and or
lovers as the energy felt may suggest. I tend to be a more
emotional man than many, but I don't imply that I have totally
mastered that, just that I am aware of it. For that reason perhaps
I tend to enjoy the company of females more, being different from
many of my fellow males in that I also don't care much for sports,
hunting, or Harleys.
I would be called polyamorous by many, but don't really like badges
or labels, even alternative ones. It is just that monogamy has
never appealed all that much to me, the idea that one can find one
person that can bring all that we would like to experience in
relationship sexually or otherwise seems quite unrealistic and
naive in my experience. For this reason, I live an"unfenced"
lifestyle, a word coined from a writer named J.J. Roberts and his
book Sex 3.0, a good read for those who have always felt that our
societal concepts about human relationships are not aligned with
the truth of our human nature. Not that monogamy is a bad or wrong
thing, if it works then it works, there is no such thing as a wrong
relationship style as long as both are in agreement, but monogamy
often seems to end up feeling suffocated and may breed excessive
codependency. I am not married but currently in a relationship with
a woman for many years who is aware of the fact that traditional
relationship definitions do not appeal to me, as do all who know
The things I enjoy include walking, bicycle riding, photography,
yoga/stretching, trying new restaurants and food, and having
thoughtful philosophical discussions about our origins, the cosmos,
and human nature in general.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Starting to create a permaculture plan for a property in the
country that I recently acquired, I love learning new techniques to
enhance human sustainability that work with nature instead of a
desire to control and dominate it, so this will be quite an
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
A lot of things really, I'm the essence of a "jack of all trades
and master of none" kind of guy. I may be especially good at
researching things and repairing things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Not sure, guess I never have asked!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't tend to have favorites of anything, I thrive best on new
experiences and trying different things, so "favorites" don't mean
Currently reading The More Beautiful World our Hearts Know is
Possible by Charles Eisenstein. Like all kinds of movies, nothing
violent, scary or silly.
For food, I keep it organic and pretty simple if possible. Small
meat meals with variety of veggies works well for me. I love rich
dark coffee, dark chocolate, herbal and green teas, and frequently
enjoy a nice ale or glass of wine or two in the evenings.
Listening to music is one of my favorite things to do, all kinds,
but country and rap wear me out pretty fast.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Don't know about "never", but would sure have a hard time without
organic food, a healthy sex life, a great dark beer, my intimate
friends, and a fast internet connection. Not necessarily in that
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why most of us humans have so much difficulty letting go of life
patterns that clearly don't really work for us, and what we can do
to facilitate positive change.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Who knows? It is my longest work day typically though, so often
just some form of chilling out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I get a panic attack sometimes when addressing groups of people.
You should message me if
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