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58 Independence, MO Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–62
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 23
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Two-year college
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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How does one truly describe themselves in words? We all seem to be such enigmas, full of sometimes conflicting energies. Not easy to describe but I suppose the idea is to just create some kind of vibe people either connect with or not. So with that in mind here goes......

Serial monogamy has never appealed to me, the idea that one can find one person that can bring all that we would like to experience in relationship seems quite unrealistic and naive in my experience. For this reason, I live a polyamorous lifestyle. Not that monogamy is a bad or wrong thing, if it works then it works, there is no such thing as a wrong relationship style as long as both are in agreement. I have been in a primary relationship with a lovely woman for many years who knows and accepts the fact that traditional relationship definitions do not appeal to me, as do all who know me.

I love building and repairing things and observing nature's incredibly amazing intricacy, sometimes with camera in hand as an amateur photographer.

Mysticism and spirituality studies intrigue me, no special beliefs, just a long term natural interest in such things. It seems to me that it is ultimately limiting to live one’s life by any belief system, traditional or alternative. My spiritual practice centers around studying non duality types of material, and I meditate regularly and do some yoga to relieve stress and clear my mind.
What I’m doing with my life
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Starting to create a permaculture plan for a property in the country that I recently acquired, I love learning new techniques to enhance human sustainability that work with nature instead of a desire to control and dominate it, so this will be quite an experiment!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
A lot of things really, I'm the essence of a "jack of all trades and master of none" kind of guy. I may be especially good at researching things and repairing things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Generally speaking my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Lately I have been into spiritual authors like Jed McKenna and David Carse, and reading about how our relationship patterns as a society became what we see today in books such as J.J. Roberts offering called Sex 3.0. I like off beat movies with a sophisticated plot, and am an obsesses stereophile who loves many forms of music except heavy metal, rap, and least most of the time, nothing is always.

Not into sports or tv so we will have to find other things to do. I know, how utterly un-American of me.

For food, I keep it organic and pretty simple if possible.. Small meat meals with lots of veggies works best for me. I love rich dark coffee, herbal and green teas, and frequently enjoy a nice ale or glass of wine or two in the evenings.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Don't know about "never", but would sure have a hard time without organic food, a healthy sex life, a great dark beer, my intimate friends, my pets, and a fast internet connection. Not necessarily in that order!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why most of us humans have so much difficulty letting go of life patterns that clearly don't really work for us, and what we can do to facilitate positive change.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Who knows? It is my longest work day typically though, so often just some form of chilling out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I get a panic attack sometimes when addressing groups of people.
You should message me if
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If some of my words bring a smile to your face......

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