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31 M Milwaukee, WI

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Catholicism, and very serious about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
You know those boring weekends? I don't have many of those. I live life and enjoy it. I stay busy in both fun and constructive ways. I'm quite willing to try new things, but it sometimes takes a bit of poking and prodding.

I enjoy having just the right trivia tidbit to contribute to a conversation. I try to get oudoors on a regular basis. My preferred methods of self-propulsion are walking and biking, but downhill skis will work in a pinch.
What I’m doing with my life
On the productive end, so far, I've:

* Chased, fed, and milked cows.
* Informed tourists why Wisconsin is the Badger State
* Worked for a Jewish Pig Farmer (think about it: ironic, eh?)
* Held a stop/slow sign for a summer. <-- BORING
* "Worked" for the state as a surveyor's assistant
* Contributed to the 6.5 million lines of code in the Boeing 787

These days I contribute to software used in equipment that intentionally shoots radiation at people (CT Scanners, X-ray equipment, etc).
I’m really good at
Getting computers to do my bidding. Uninitialized variables and buffer overflows run in fear when I enter the room.

Also, I'm reasonably good at landing small airplanes without destroying them.
The first things people usually notice about me
Based on the answers received from the handful of people that I asked, it would appear that I don't make a particularly strong first impression. Perhaps that's a good thing - in my experience first impressions often tell part of the story, but rarely tell the whole story.
The six things I could never do without
The short answer:
Within constraints of reason, I'll generally make do with whatever I have.

The long answer:
1) Travel. I make a point of traveling annually. Sometimes it's international (I've been in Mexico, Canada, France, England, Spain, Germany, Peru, Thailand, Laos, and Cambodia), and sometimes it's just a domestic road trip. Australia is next. I'm not sure what's after that, but it will be somewhere cool.
2) A smart phone. I have insatiable curiosity about the world around me. I love having the answers at my fingertips.
3) Optimism.
4) At least one good friend.
5) A belief in some sort of God, and more specifically the Catholic Church. Spending all day trying to distinguish between grey and gray is no way to live life. There is no doubt: good exists, and so does evil. I find great comfort in the comparatively black-and-white answers provided by catholic teachings. Although I'm decidedly Catholic, dating observant christians of other denominations is a very real possibility for me.
6) Leaving room for something new in my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
I am NOT:
- Playing world of warcraft
- Crying about an ex-girlfriend
- Calling the psychic friends network
- Playing dungeons and dragons in my parent's basement

However, if you play WoW from your parents' basement wearing your female vulcan costume, that's not inherently a problem for me. However, calling the psychic friends network or crying about your ex-girlfriend are indeed disqualifying characteristics.

If you really want to know what I am doing on a Friday night, you should message me and perhaps we can find something fun to do together.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My past is not what anyone would call scandalous, so instead I'll use this space to document some of my less-than-pleasant dating experiences:

- I initially thought dating a girl with an accent would be cool, but during our first date she made it clear that she was hoping to get engaged before her visa expired in 2 months.

- After a few dates, I typed my date's name into google. Her adult industry "job wanted" advertisement appeared.

- My date pulled out her Spanish memorization flash cards during our date and started practicing. After going through the deck, she moved on to her Rubik's cube. Two friends from college coincidentally appeared at the restaurant just in time to see her awkwardly fidgeting with the rubik's cube.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 26–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
...if you'd like to guess which one of the three bad dates listed above was with someone I met on okcupid
...if you aren't going to give me a new item to add to the list
...if you're a genuinely nice person