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31 M Milwaukee, WI

I’m looking for

  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, and very serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
You know those boring weekends? I don't have many of those. I try to live life and enjoy it. I stay busy in both fun and constructive ways. I'm quite willing to try new things, but it sometimes takes a bit of poking and prodding.

I enjoy having just the right trivia tidbit to contribute to a conversation. I try to get oudoors on a regular basis. My preferred methods of self-propulsion are walking and biking, but downhill skis will work in a pinch.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
On the productive end, so far, I've:

* Chased, fed, and milked cows.
* Informed tourists why Wisconsin is the Badger State
* Worked for a Jewish Pig Farmer (think about it: ironic, eh?)
* Held a stop/slow sign for a summer. <-- BORING
* "Worked" for the state as a surveyor's assistant
* Contributed to the 6.5 million lines of code in the Boeing 787

These days I help design equipment that intentionally shoots radiation at people (CT Scanners, X-ray equipment, etc).

I think being a kind person is very important. I've never been particularly unkind, but right now I'm trying to focus on being a kind and loving person over personal property, professional accomplishments, and "bucket list" items.

As for my future, I have no idea what it holds. The best-laid plans tend to crumble, but the idea of moving back to a rural area (or at least a smaller city/town) is appealing to me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting computers to do my bidding. Uninitialized variables and buffer overflows run in fear when I enter the room.

It's been a while, but there was a time that I was reasonably good at landing small airplanes.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Based on the answers received from the handful of people that I asked, it would appear that I don't make a particularly strong first impression. Perhaps that's a good thing - in my experience first impressions often tell part of the story, but rarely tell the whole story.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The short answer:
Within constraints of reason, I'll generally make do with whatever I have.

The long answer:
1) A belief in God, and more specifically Christ. Spending all day trying to distinguish between grey and gray is no way to live life. There is no doubt: good exists, and so does evil. I find great comfort in the comparatively black-and-white answers provided by catholic teachings. Although I'm decidedly Catholic, dating a devout christian of another tradition is a possibility for me.
2) Travel. It's always mind-expanding. I've visited about ten countries, and have traveled domestically as well. I get giddy when I see a photo or video clip of a place that I've visited in person. Petra is starting to bubble to the top of my unwritten bucket list.
3) A smart phone. I have insatiable curiosity about the world around me. I love having the answers at my fingertips.
4) Optimism.
5) At least one good friend.
6) Leaving room for something new in my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am NOT:
- Playing world of warcraft
- Crying about an ex-girlfriend
- Calling the psychic friends network
- Playing dungeons and dragons in my parent's basement

However, if you play WoW from your parents' basement wearing your female vulcan costume, that's not inherently a problem for me. However, calling the psychic friends network or crying about your ex-girlfriend are indeed disqualifying characteristics.

If you really want to know what I am doing on a Friday night, you should message me and perhaps we can find something fun to do together.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My past is not what anyone would call scandalous, so instead I'll use this space to document some of my less-than-pleasant dating experiences:

- I initially thought dating a girl with an accent would be cool, but during our first date she made it clear that she was hoping to get engaged before her visa expired in 2 months (yep...)

- After a few dates, I typed my date's real-world first and last name into google. Her adult industry "job wanted" advertisement appeared, complete with photos (yep...)

- My date pulled out her Spanish memorization flash cards during our date and started practicing. After going through the deck, she moved on to her Rubik's cube. Two friends from college coincidentally observed the whole thing from the opposite side of the restaurant. My friends now use "rubik's cube girl" as a sort of scale for measuring the badness level of bad dates (yep...)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...if you'd like to guess which one of the three bad dates listed above was with someone I met on okcupid
...if you aren't going to give me a new item to add to the list
...if you're a genuinely nice person