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33 Broomfield, CO Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 23–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

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5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Chinese (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Well hello... Thanks for clicking on my picture. I'm 32, never married, an IT consultant, and I've spent most of the last eight years out of the country.

I've spent the last six months not dating to figure out what I want (and maybe a little bit of "what have I been doing wrong?") and think I'm ready to meet some new people again.

I like my career without loving it. My real passion is for traveling and for live performance. I've been doing improv comedy for about six years and I co-lead an improv non-profit based in Boulder.

What I'm looking for: Ultimately I am looking for a relationship that will lead to marriage and kids. I'm in favor of a having fun now but my goal is to find someone I can give a lifelong commitment to and receive the same back.

I'm not fond of the idea that "opposites attract." I think couples who appear to be very different stick out in our minds but most successful couples have a lot in common in how they spend their free time, deal with conflict, and show appreciation. So... regardless of how narcissistic this sounds: I'm looking for someone who I have a lot in common with.

So... if you're nerdy, open minded, physically active, love traveling, and love attending/performing at cultural events you should message me.

Special Note: I don't use any recreational drugs and almost never drink. I don't have a problem being around it but if being in an altered state is big part of your life then we wouldn't work out.
What I’m doing with my life
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Reading, traveling, working, eating, being active, pushing myself, trying to figure out what makes me happiest.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being in front of people. I love presenting ideas, performing, and making others laugh. I'm fantastic at ignoring my tonal deficiencies and giving a rocking karaoke performance. I'm very good at keeping my word and sticking to schedules (and can lose patience with those who are incapable of doing either.)

I love adventures- I've spent about half of the last decade living outside the US (East Europe, East Asia, and Latin America) and, fortunately, am pretty good at communicating in other languages.
The first things people usually notice about me
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In the United States I think people notice my deadpan humor quickly. I've been told I don't smile enough, and that might be right, but part of my reasoning is that my jokes are funnier if you don't see them coming.

Some people comment that they don't always know when I'm joking. I go back and forth on that, but I get really excited when I'm around people who are perceptive enough to spot one of my ridiculous statements.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love non-fiction, historical fiction, science fiction, Game of Thrones (books and television series.) I loved the new Battlestar Galactica, Firefly, The Office, Modern Family (even when Sofia Vergara is not on the screen,) and I've got a big heart for the Stargate franchise. I will not pretend to be anything but a nerd.

My favorite books, in no particular order would probably include: The Aubrey-Maturin novels, Les Miserables, The Dark Tower series, Guns, Germs, and Steel, A Hero of Our Time, and a lot of Tom Clancy's stuff. I also love non-fiction travel writing.

I love all different sorts of food. I lived in East Asia for three years and, unfortunately, that ruined American-Chinese food for me, but You and Mee Noodle House in Boulder is fantastic. I also love Japanese food, Middle Eastern food, Korean food, and spicy/strong things.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Asian food
Internet (to allow for communication and geekery)
The performing arts
Friends who know when I'm joking
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where I want to travel to next. The pros and cons of traveling alone. Food. Books that I'm reading. Did all my friends get into serious relationships too early or am I moving too slow? Ya know, helpful stuff like that.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm definitely done with the partying phase of my life. I prefer smaller groups of people and trying new things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't always bring things up that are bothering me as quickly as I should. I grew up around a lot of overly sensitive and a bit unstable people and the tendency to swallow my feelings is still there. I'm working on it.

Also... I have multiple pairs of superhero themed boxer shorts.

One more thing: I'm a deist. I believe in God but fully admit that I don't understand much about the concept. I'm not attached to a specific religion but I don't really get along with combative atheists who can't respect my appreciation for the divine. Arguing about the unknowable is exhausting to me.
You should message me if
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... you spelled out every word in your profile.
... you like traveling without firm plans.
... you've ever dressed up as a superhero(ine) for Halloween (or would like to!)
... you like science fiction and don't care who knows. (or at least don't care about how much I like it! Seriously- that will never change!)
... you have an artistic side. It doesn't have to match mine (performing arts) but I need to be with someone that understands that side of me.
... you don't define "intelligent" as "someone who holds the same beliefs which I do." That's not intelligence and it's lazy to flatter yourself that way.