I guess I'm a little bit of a closet
dork. I went to school for math and
computer science (but ended up getting involved in
art). I work as a programmer (but it's
in an advertising agency). I like playing
video games, boardgames, cards. But
I don't come across as awkwardly nerdy, and I guess the way I dress
and act people tend to think I'm more of the creative type. I love
art. Drawing, painting, sculpture, anything I can get my hands in.
If I had my way I'd much rather make a living out of that, although
I get a good deal of gratification from the chemical reaction in my
brain when I'm solving problems and programming. I'm still trying
to figure out what I want to do with the rest of my life because I
have too many interests.
I see things as pictures in my head. I'm constantly day dreaming,
watching/writing stories, movies, animations in my head. Although
when I space out people tend to think I look agitated and
pensive.
My ideal night is hanging out at home, watching a movie, having a
quiet evening. I love thought-provoking conversations, or listening
to people talk about something they are passionate about. It could
be anything from the history of a language, the meaning of life,
complex mathematics, or why you like the taste of cheese. Just
being able to hear someone talk about their passions--the way their
voice rises, or their eyes light up--makes my heart beat.
I like going out too, maybe a fancy dinner--I love
sushi, but I like sampling all kinds
of ethnic foods and trying new things (just don't ask me to go to a
steak house). I also enjoy anything cultural, shows, movies,
concerts, and I'm always up for a good art gallery (although I'm a
bit of an art snob because I'll spend a lot of time analyzing work
and picking out all the positive and negative things about it, and
if it's not good I'm likely to be blunt about it).
I love to
travel.
My life goal is to visit every country at least once. I hate being
a tourist, I'd much rather be a sponge and absorb as much culture
from a place as I can. Spending longer than a few days and trying
to get an appreciation in something new and different.
I have a weird attraction to
left handed people. I think foreign
accents are exciting. Honesty is required. Being able to enjoy
sushi is a must. Intellectualism is a turn on. A dash of
bashfulness is adorable. Plans of world domination are cute. A good
smile goes a long way. Humor and laughing at my lame/dry/sarcastic
quips is appreciated (know a good dead baby joke?).
All that being said, I think physical attraction is just as
important as emotional. I can't get involved with someone who is
sweet, but is not physically attractive to me. It wouldn't last,
and I have no interest in investing in something that I can't put
myself wholly into. I'd also kind of like someone I can work out
with; run, jog, swim, play.
I'm not interested in hook ups, going to gay clubs, dating someone
with a lot of gay friends (it's too competitive!), or people who
define their identity around being gay instead of around being
themselves. I just don't enjoy the "gay culture" that I have seen
in my life time, I don't like drama, or guys who act really girly.
I'd have a lot of trouble being intimate with someone who's been
around town and gotten too many notches. Although I like looking at
a fit, good looking guy, I get freaked out when I see someone post
a shirtless picture online.
If I'm going to date a guy, he needs to be a guy, although boyish
is fine too (this does not mean tough and macho, I think that
should make enough sense).
Mostly just work right now, I'm in digital(online) advertising and
we've been pretty busy this whole year. Outside of work it's just
been me time, or time with friends/family.
Cello lessons every week, and hopefully
some time for something artistic.
My smile, my eyes, my hugs.
movies: thriller, spy, mystery, fantasy. anything really once I
start a movie I like to finish it (no matter how bad) although I
don't like horror because I get bad nightmares and have an active
imagination.
music: radiohead, bjork, blonde redhead, imogen heap... to name a
few.
food: sushi. mexican, chinese, indian, plenty else.
books: about the same as my taste in movies.
day dreaming, writing stories, traveling to distant countries,
life.
watching a movie, resting from a stressful week, or out to dinner
with a friend.
my hoody is like my security blanket.
you've read my profile, think we have things in common, fit into
the guidelines specified, and are under 35.