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31 Toronto, Ontario, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Jul 1
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Working on Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I sometimes play a game where I mash together celebrities/fictitious characters to describe real people. I like to think that I'm one part Rose Nylund (small town tales), one part Lena Dunham (shameless weirdo), and one part Leslie Knope (hopeful do-gooder). Of course, I'm more than that combo, but it's a good reference point.

In some ways I'm quite outgoing, but I can be shy about flirting. I really dig it when people I'm out with are a bit more assertive or dominant. I'm also rather busy these days, so I can sometimes be a bit flaky about correspondence. I apologize in advance!

Also, I've done the poly thing for a while. It's not ideally what I'm looking for right now, but I can sometimes work within that framework for fun sexy times.

I'm generous, thoughtful, and playful.
What I’m doing with my life
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working on my PhD, which looks like writing, teaching, and taking on a variety of volunteer work on campus. I also work at an amazing part-time retail gig on the side.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being there for people.
The first things people usually notice about me
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is that I'm friendly, I think. Because I'll be apt to chat you up pretty quickly once we make contact.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Some Books: Are You My Mother?, Let The Right One In, Mister Sandman, A Complicated Kindness
Some Movies: Moonrise Kingdom, The Sessions, Twister, Girl Most Likely
Some TV: Parks and Recreation, Friday Night Lights, Masters of Sex, Portlandia
Some Music: St Vincent, TLC, The National, Beyoncé
Some Food: fish tacos, kettle chips, brussel sprouts, sushi
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
family, music, friends, bathing, sex, and learning
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
dancing down the street.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hanging out with a friend or two in a pretty low-key way.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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is that I'm actually quite romantic.
You should message me if
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- you want to meet up for a drink or something
- you want company for something fun
- you are browsing around OkCupid and are bored
- you feel curious about what would happen if you sent me a message