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41 Louisville, KY Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Dec 17
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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just transplanted from chicago to louisville for an exciting big girl job. i am delighted to see what possibility city holds for me and to meet new people.

i'm a queer, thinker, doer, feminist, lefty-leftist, non-monogamish kinsey 5.5 who's partnered with two great danes.
What I’m doing with my life
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teaching, practicing, and writing history. sleeping a bit too little yet indulging a few too many hedonisms.

playing well with others, but also running with scissors.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
adding shallots, butter, sherry and truffle oil to various foodstuffs.

making friends feel heard, supported and loved.

conversing about most anything. i ask a mean question.

sirsasana and parivrtta surya yantrasana.
The first things people usually notice about me
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they usually have to look up, because ima tall drinka water.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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i read too much unsexy for my work, but fiction loves include margaret atwood and phillip roth.

film loves include tape, au hazard balthazar, shortbus and the horse boy.

i do so love the television when good: orange is the new black, justified, nurse jackie and mad men currently glue me to my seat.

music that fills my heart and/or shake my booty: jolie holland, new pornos, the kills, thao, laura veirs, devotchka, all things justin vernon, anais mitchell, andrew bird, mulatu astatke, to scratch the surface.

as for the tasty yummies, so very much in the vegetable and fruits de mer categories, certainly including the washed rind and triple creme joys of this life. long live stinky and runny cheeses.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
all manner of skin product

(and now i must add bourbon. been a fan a long time, but seriously, louisville, you make it too easy to drink brown)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
radical politics
collective memory
cultural theory
my next meal
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
still trying to figure out what my typical friday night looks like in this town.

i've been cultivating a friday happy hour visit to hillybilly tea that's been starting off my weekend just right. i hope to keep it up.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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when the going gets rough, i turn to potato chips.
You should message me if
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you're a queer girl. you think. you live according to your own rules. you live honestly and vibrantly.

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