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34 M Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Jul 21
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Working on med school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Former humanities major turned non-traditional med student, endeavoring to do well by doing good. Engaging in delayed gratification, memorizing lots of things.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm in school a lot of the time, but when I'm not, I'm usually out trying to take pictures of things, or at home messing around on my piano. Searching for that sea of clam, I mean calm.
I’m really good at
Writing things no longer than a couple of paragraphs, picking out melodies and harmonies on the piano (but not necessarily the rhythm), sleep deprivation, making jokes no one notices. I'm also pretty good at humor that references previous shared experiences, which is a skill of limited utility when meeting new people. I can also remember numbers really well and do arithmetic in my head. And geography - I usually know where things in the macro sense, like countries, which shouldn't be confused with finding individual items in a room, which I'm decidedly not good at.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm laid back. I don't have much facial expression. Everything I touch turns to solid gold. Maybe lost in thought? I have no idea. I'm not sure why I'm trying to answer this.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I can make a mean mixtape, I'm told, and I eat just about everything. When I have time for movies, I enjoy a good dystopian thriller like Blade Runner or Dr. Strangelove.

I eat just about everything, but my staples are noodles, roast veggies, fish, and greek yogurt. How this is anything more than marginally helpful for evaluating me on an online dating site is a mystery to me.
The six things I could never do without
The piano in my house, fog, silence, open space, companionship and of course, love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The piano in my house, fog, silence, open space, companionship, and my family. How to find that mythical sea of clam. I mean calm.
On a typical Friday night I am
Honestly? A bit tired. I'm in medical school. But I still remember how to enjoy Friday better than I remember the anatomy of the hand. Priorities.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I listened to a lot of light rock growing up.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Rumi said it best when he wrote (in Farsi, I'm assuming): "Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it." I've spent a lot of time working on this and plan on continuing to do so. You can't really control what becomes a romantic relationship; trying to control it actually makes it harder to cultivate one. That's been an important lesson to learn with respect to this online dating game.

Mostly, I'm looking for someone on the same page. To keep it real with.