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38 San Jose, CA Woman


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  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
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My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:53pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Likes dogs and has cats
My self-summary
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I'm a biology nerd! I also love hockey (I play, coach, ref and watch). I watch a ton of movies (admitted popcorn addict) and my sense of humor has often been described as "brutally sarcastic."

I am also, apparently, one of the few people on this site that doesn't hike. I would much rather take a long scenic drive with the windows open while listening to music.

To avoid any confusion, I am married and in an open/polyamorous relationship. If that's not your thing, that's fine. If you have questions, feel free to ask :)
What I’m doing with my life
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Predominantly, I am doing research. My passions include immunology, stem cell bio, cancer cell bio, my gorgeous historic Victorian house and my husband.
I’m really good at
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skating backwards!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Elizabeth Moon's Deed of Paksenarrion books, anything by Carol Berg (esp Song of the Beast), the collective works of Chris Moore. Deborah Harkness, and Jim Butcher have put out some good collections too.

Shawshank Redemption, Miracle (really, I'm a sucker for ANY sports movie!), Lord of the Rings, Pride and Prejudice, The King's Speech.

Firefly was the best TV show EVER. It set the bar. But Castle, Sherlock, Elementary, and Bones don't suck either.

Assemblage 23, Live, Rush, Insoc, Sugarcult, Caroline's Spine, Eve 6, Sarah McLachlan, Tori Amos, VAST, VNV Nation
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Enjoying the atmosphere of Single Barrel in downtown San Jose or relaxing at home.
You should message me if
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You need a center or right wing ;) Definitely not if you need a goalie!

One word and single sentence messages of "hi, hey, how are you, you're hot," etc will be ignored. The primary reason for this is that I do not sit on this site for long periods of time and get frustrated with people who attempt to use the message system in a texting/chatting format. If you are interested, please send me a note that demonstrates that you have actually read my profile rather than simply glancing at my photos.

Also: if we don't live in the same state I will not respond. I will likewise not respond to people that do not live in the same country.

I have absolutely no interest in dating anyone above the age limit I have listed. You are older than my father? Definitely not happening.

Please note that I did NOT list casual sex as something that I'm looking for. I did that explicitly. If your message to me includes the phrase "oral pleasure" or anything of that ilk, I will say "Ewww!" and then I will block/hide you and delete the message. Profiles with dick pics will receive similar responses.