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29 Springfield, MA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last Online
Today – 5:57pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), Vietnamese (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Revamping the profile as things have changed since I've last been on here.

Here's my resume to apply to be your friend/significant other:

NYC transplant living in Western MA.
I have a degree I don't use.
I'm openly nice to those that deserve it.
I wear my heart on my sleeve.
I try to use correct grammar and spelling.
I've traveled to Southeast Asia 4 times in the past 2 years.
I work 75+ hrs a week so I've learn to be efficient with the free time I do have.
I'm fair, logical, rational, and just. I will tactfully call you out on your "mistakes" and not throw you under the proverbial bus.
I'm stubborn but accept criticism without a problem.
I play video/mobile games and kick ass at them.
People underestimate my skills in sports that I play.
I'm secretly confident that I'm awesome but I don't rub it in peoples faces. I just let them find out on their own.
I read a ton of self-improvement books, tech news, current events, and always keeping up with the current memes.
I share links of articles that I feel can be applied to people's lives.
I've done more romantic things in one year than most guys do in their whole lives.
I watched 9/11 happened in front of my eyes during high school.
I'll surprise you in more ways than one ;D
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently running a family business but that's going to change and hopefully soon. I have many things in the works. Looking to return to VN or looking for a good reason to stay.

Everyone loves an underdog right? All those missteps in the past has finally proven to be useful experience and knowledge for me to take the next step in becoming a better version of myself.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm an extremely good listener. Combined with my mild OCD, attention to detail and really good memory, it makes it easy to be nice because I pay attention to what you say.

I'm nice, period.

I have an awesome sense of direction. I don't get lost ever whether hiking or driving or discovering new places.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm Asian or that I'm relatively tall.

I also smile alot. Sometimes to break the awkward eye contact kinda way.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I don't have an extensively library of leisure books but one of my favorite authors is David Baldacci. So anything similar to his kind of work is what I've probably read. Most recent book that I (re)read is Ender's series long before the movie came out.

I download alot of things to watch with my friends and family so no real "favorite"

Broadway shows:
Book of Mormons, hands down best show I've ever seen
Avenue Q, this is fucking hilarious. "The internet is for porn"
West Side Story, saw the 2nd to last show before it closed in NYC so I'm partly biased because I feel they were trying to go out with a bang.
Newsies, surprisingly it was alot better than I thought it would be.
Cinderella, I don't care what you think. This was awesome!

See I'm cultured that way too.

Spotify playlists on repeat.

I grew up in NYC and have traveled all along the East Coast and Vietnam/HK. I know good food when I see it. I eat every ethnic food without any hesitation.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My mom. And no I'm not a mama's boy. I just understand respect for those that made me the man I am today.
My thirst to always trying to become a better person. No one is perfect.
Google! Just try and remember what life was like before it. Want to go back to that?
Food because even on a bad day, good food can make it better.
A vehicle that transport me whether it's a car/motorcycle/motorbike.
Sex because life seriously is boring without it. If you disagree, I believe you are of the small percentage of people that exist in our current world.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sometimes I wish online profiles were less formal and more personal. I hate that I hafta write in complete, grammatical correct sentences when half the people on here, men and women, don't actually talk that way. ""

Why hasn't anyone sued Disney for making everyone in the world believe that the fairy-tale ending is fool-proof?

How to tackle my next big challenge. I know I'm meant for greater things. It's what I've been preparing for the past 29 yrs.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sadly, I live a pretty mundane life here in the US. Due to my work schedule and the fact that most of my friends aren't anywhere close, not much to do in Western MA, at least not alone. Therefore, I've resorted to learning new things to make myself better. Either that or else I'm leisurely reading something or watching something.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I had to hustle when I was a kid because my parents weren't too financially well off to give me an allowance. If you are interested in knowing, you are more than welcome to ask me.
You should message me if
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You think I sound interesting enough to hang with. I never met someone whom I couldn't get to smile. I'll bet you dinner ;D

PS - If I messaged you, at least politely decline if you aren't interested. I hate it when I take the time to write a message and get squat back.

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