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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30-50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 7:03am
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a laid back guy in my personal life with a very intense
professional life. I take care of my friends and am usually the
rock in emotional situations and crisis. I'm changing the world
every single day and am looking for guys who are up to something
significant in their lives.

While I have an intensity, I enjoy my down time, love to hang out
and chat / cuddle.

I'm not really into the bar scene, although I'm really comfortable
in bars, at clubs, at the theater, in a tux, on the farm, nearly
anywhere or setting, as long as there is someone interesting to
talk to and the scenery is inspiring (which is most anywhere to
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm an executive coach and corporate trainer. I help leaders run their companies well by treating people respectfully. I'm here to transform the way we do business on the planet.

I'm also a gifted healer and shaman - I'm just now beginning to trust and use my gifts on a daily basis. While I've known about this "esoteric" side of myself, I ignored it for a long time.

I hope to create a farm/retreat center for other healers and gifted people to learn how to recognize, trust, harness and hone their gifts and talents. The farm will be a self-sustaining ecosystem based on biodynamic farming techniques. The self-sustaining philosophy very much is in line with how I try to live my life.

I'm also a Burner and I help run a very large gay theme camp, which is a year-round job. We throw hot fundraisers throughout the year in SF to build and pay for our infrastructure on the playa. Let me know if you'd like to be invited :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening and offering options to people when they feel stuck or overwhelmed. Empathizing with others. Cooking. Camping with all of the creature comforts (picture a 3 star resort in a tent). Traveling. Taking care of my friends and family. Making sure everyone is having a good time.

Healing. Distance healing. Spiritual guidance and emotional support.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile and my caring attitude. Then my eyes and my butt :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Food: Just about anything that is made with care and attention. I love all ethnic foods (unless it's really bitter!), and since I grew up in the South (Virginia and New Orleans), I LOVE Southern cooking, but tend to make it healthier :)

I read about 5 books at a time, often switching back and fourth between them. I read a lot for work about the brain, mental health, politics, business / strategy, and keep up with the latest news - especially about market conditions (not stocks, but what's going on in different industries).

My best friends are movie buffs, so I see a ton of movies with them and often have press passes for movies before they are released. I don't usually choose the movies and have to say that I enjoy the escape and the story in most movies, although I've noticed that quality of movies has been a bit lacking lately. So, any movie genre but romantic comedies work for me.

I love dance music and mash-ups. I have a pretty solid collection of the best mash-ups produced. Otherwise, I usually ask friends to load up my iPod with music they like and I discover all sorts of new artists.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Fun / discovery / exploration / joie de vivre
Food! (I LOVE food!)
Free time
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The state of our planet and people's lives and businesses. And food :) And sex. :) Who doesn't?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Winding down from an intense week. Some Friday's I'm raring to go out and blow off steam. Other Friday's I'm dying to stay in, relax and sleep.

Or I'm packing up the car to go camping or heading up to wine country to relax at a friend's place for the weekend.

I like variety and rarely do the same thing twice....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love to be naked. A lot. Oh, and I'm an ethical slut. I'm polyamorous and you need to be comfortable with that if you're interested in hanging out with me. I play well with others and share well :)
You should message me if
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You're sexy, comfortable in your own skin, up to something significant or unique in the world and ready for a good time! Or ready for an adventure. Or looking to cuddle :)