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28 / M / Straight / Single

Berkeley, California

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Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Used up
Diet
Vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Aquarius
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Scrapped it. A good friend, a decent musician. Pretty well balanced, but always working to improve. I can be very silly. You've been warned.

I really put a lot of value on donating my time/money to causes that I believe in. But I don't always succeed in this. I'll admit when I'm wrong too.... Isn't it funny to see all these okc profiles that seem like the person is just this shining perfect example of humanity? BULL-SHEEAT. But I guess we need to put our best foot forward right? Oh, and I say hi to animals on the street. So there's that.

To be upfront about the life I live where I'd be spending time with someone else.... my nights are filled with either band practice, shows of other bands, bars with brahs and ladybrahs, other night-lifey type things, or staying in and being still after too many nights of this. So if live music, late nights, lots of beers, big groups of people and meeting new people all the time doesn't interest you, I may not be the fella you want to kick it with. That being said, I do have time to do things outside of my sphere of regular things I do (and I like to think I'm open to new things).
What I’m doing with my life
Evolving process. Just left a non-profit gig of many years, not sure what's on the horizon for me and feeling totally fine with that (which is unexpected considering I can be a talented worrier hah). Immediate plans are to return to yeacamp.org and inspire some young people in July. In the meantime I shall continue to enjoy sleeping in, going to the gym more regularly, finding some hiking spots, cooking more, organizing my closet, reading some sci-fi.... etc
I’m really good at
Rolling with the punches. Going out. I can work a lot of scenes; goth, folk/bluegrass, hip hop, indie, club/bro bullshit, whatever. And I've done all of those within the last few months. I can also cook! And I've got a good pair of strong biking legs (definitely not running legs though, hah)

Clicking the hide button as soon as I see a picture of you at burning man :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A random sampling.....

Jonathan Lethem, Kazuo Ishiguro, Aldous Huxley, Charles Bukowski (for nostalgia's sake), Jonathan Safran Foer. Just finished this rad sci-fi-esque book called Ready Player One full of 80's trivia and Matrix type themes. Sweet. Sometimes I won't read for a month or two it seems, and then I'll plow through two novels in a week. Weirdo.

Game of Thrones, Walking Dead, Freaks and Geeks, My So-Called Life, Dexter, The Wire (you know, pretty much all the required white people type shit)

Drive, Minority Report, Ratatouille, LOTR, Wayne's World, Let the right one in, Ferris Bueller's Day Off. I've seen way, way too many movies. New Star Trek was rad, go see it.

New Order, Depeche Mode, The Weeknd, Toms Waits, LCD Soundystem, Lagwagon, David Bazan/Pedro, The Gamits (I'm so random with music... one day it'll be Bryan Adams, then Deftones, Grimes, maybe Built to Spill, 90's top 40, Sam Cooke, Elvis....). I like singles/deep cuts. Not necessarily a snob for albums at the moment.

falafel, thai, this chipotle vegan cheese sauce I make that's BANGIN. Long Life Vegi House, green smoothies, etc.
The six things I could never do without
nickelback, parking tickets, creed, meth, lower back pain, fracking

but not humor
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Paul has always been my favorite Beatle

I'm actually Matt Damon. Sorry.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–31
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
Seriously just do it. Dudes are always happy about it, trust me.

You'll bring me strawberries.

Your chest is tattooed.

You are actually a cat (holy crap how did you learn to use the interwebs can we be friends omaslfkjdf you're amazing)

You're a musician of sorts

Any of the following sound fun:
-hiking
-working out together
-going to shows/music festivals
-musicals
-roller skating
-seeing roller derby
-watching old disney movies
-watching/going to any movie
-cooking together
-carnivals/fairs
-day drinking
-volunteering
-random walks
-jamming together
-farmers markets
-going to any kind of sports event (baseball, basketball, hockey, football.... especially any kind of minor league games)
-reading out loud
-picnics
-frisbee
-bike riding
-beer/wine tasting
-beach trips