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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 59-100
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 30, 2013
Native American, White
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Not at all
Buddhism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English, French, Indonesian
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Romance has not been in the cards for me in the years since my husband died, but the dream of it, is of course, wonderful. If it happened I would welcome it but I am also willing to be just plain practical right now. I'd like to grow a sense of family in my life because I am so much an orphan. On the other hand (and there usually is another one) I am loving my complete lack of anyone asking anything of me. I am learning to live for myself for the first time in my life and it is great.
Never had kids but I raised five step children (who are off in their world now that their father has died). My siblings are all off in their own worlds too. I miss male companionship - terrific male companionship. A business partner to help me start a writers' retreat on my land in Nicaragua would be fine....or I'd love a friend who liked jazz, movies and good conversation....
I have benefitted from an excellent education and vast and interesting life experience. I've lived and worked on many continents. I've been a lawyer, teacher and professor and now consider myself a writer and artist.
If you are a widower you will probably understand me better than others. I am the widow of a very successful and happy 20 year marriage with a soul mate so I was lucky and now very picky. I have known what it is to have marriage and commitment with a soul mate and I also know what sound financial partnership feels like. It feels really good. I am selfish enough to want to experience that again.
If these are words that might be found in your profile, read on......
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Terrific interesting things....would love to share this with another who wants a full, loving, and sexually and emotionally committed relationship til death do us part.... I have travelled the whole world in two different careers (teaching and law), am semi-retired, own land in Nicaragua, often own sailboats, love reading and music and conversation and very involved right now with creating widow/widower groups all over the country to help these sad people recover...I call my method "Loving yourself back into life - a survivor speaks out"....
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...anything verbal, like writing and editing and conversation but also am a visual artist...Mostly a painter......swimming, sailing, laughing at good jokes....story telling.....being truthful......horsemanship...finding my way around even a strange new environment.....finding my way 'round the Paris airport....and train stations....
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am very young looking for my age. I laugh a lot. I love a good joke although I am the most gullible person in the world.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Country Girls by Edna O'Brien; Daphne DuMaurier novels like Rebecca (great murder mystery); Confederacy of Dunces by John Kennedy Toole; Stranger than Fiction (movie)with Dustin Hoffman and Will Ferrell ....John Coltrane, Sonny Rollins.....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Ocean, water of any kind, mountains, trees, nature in general - wildness..... watching Kingfishers dive.....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The nature of the there could never by nothing because there is always going to be something to be aware that there is nothing.....
I try not to think too much but it comes way to naturally to stop and be in the moment but as we all know this is almost unattainable but a good goal.....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Getting off work in West Marin (my writing) and heading for a walk on the beach or an evening of cooking and reading and listening to music....Nature works for me. Love watching Kingfishers and herons and otters.....Don't like going to concerts , plays etc alone which is one reason I am looking for a partner...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have been undiagnosed ADD all my life but only figured it out about two weeks ago....
You should message me if
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You are not just looking for extra curricular activities outside of relationships you are already in (or cannot let go of), are not drug or marijuana or alcohol or sex-addicted, see yourself as old-fashioned, like the concept of a "date", are looking for some companionship that leads to marriage and do not just want a pen pal or a dating buddy for movies - and - you are not a Republican! I'm left of Obama but becoming more and more apolitical as I try to just focus on my own world. Would always vote for Ralph Nader or Winona Laduke if given the opportunity