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27 M Astoria, NY

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Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
A little extra
Strictly anything
Trying to quit
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Hmmm, I prefer nice shiny bullets.

-My name is Carlos.

-playing guitar (and writing music)
-any and all forms of philosophy (honestly, just walk up to me and ask me 'why?' and my next 5hrs are set, hehe)
-hanging out with good people
-film (I majored in film and am slowly building a career in it)
-any person who thinks for themself while keeping an open mind
-trying to irritate people that bother me (like with random annoying grammar points: 'themself' isn't really a word, it's contradictory!)
-^^^yeah, I can be quite a bit of a nerd

-coffee (I'm half Colombian, I grew up around the stuff, I dislike it so!), doesn't matter though if others like it, I just don't, I prefer tea
-ignorance (and people who think they are 100%free of it)
-bad music
-uber-average people

Other Stuff About Me...
-I recently moved to NYC for work and am slowly building a new life here
-I'm gonna be a writer/director and make my own movies one day
-I'm here for both friends and a possible girlfriend, but I will start with friends first since I find that to be the easiest, safest way to go about it
-I'm an agnostic (although I'm no fan of organized religion, I try to respect other religions and can't help my own Catholic upbringing, but I do not identify with any religion I've come across aside from my own personal beliefs)
-politically, I'm pretty liberal
-although I enjoy the outdoors, I'm not a huge fan of heat, I prefer cool weather; love sweaters, gloves, scarves, beanies, and blankets
-I like letting others influence me and rub off on me
-I often appear shy (and sometimes apathetic) at first, but I loosen up quite quickly among people I like
-I'm not a large partier, I prefer get-togethers (doesn't mean I don't like loud, stupid fun)
-though I may try to hide it, I can be quite a nerd
-I try not to form opinions on things I am not well informed on which sometimes makes me feel ignorant, but I'm either withholding judgement or uninterested
-I think and live in my head much more than it appears, but I don't accomplish as much as one would hope with all that time
-I speak decent Spanish and horrible French/German
-I tend to ramble on when bored (and I'm bored at the moment)

Also, since everyone seems to be giving their two cents on the topic of the oxford comma, I am very much for it.
What I’m doing with my life
I graduated in the Summer of '10 and have been pursuing a career in filmmaking. I spent the weekends of my senior year of college driving to NJ to work on various film projects with several friends of mine. Now I'm making my money traveling around the North East (mainly NYC) doing sound work for various production gigs.
Basically, I'm the guy you see on film/production sets holding the huge microphone pole over all the action.
It's hard work but I love it. Lately, I've also been looking into film production as well.

I think it's ridiculously cool that I have an IMDB page and I still get a kick out of every addition I get to make to it.
I’m really good at
Trying to make people laugh, and most of the times succeeding.

Being the creative type.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm quiet at first but I warm up pretty quickly. And yes, if you let me speak, I will try to make a joke the first chance I get.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A. I'm working on becoming more of a reader lately but can't declare *too* many favorite books.
Here are a few of the ones i really liked though...
"Johnny Got His Gun," "The Time Traveler's Wife," "The Elegant Universe," "Holiday's on Ice," "Alice in Wonderland" "Into The Wild"
I mostly read articles and nonfiction books on topics like History, Science, Film, and Photography.

B. Saving Private Ryan is one of my favorites. I'm a fan of war, comedy, and movies that make me think. Other movie favorites are: "Anchorman," "Dr. Stranglove: Or How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love the Bomb," "The Back to the Future Series," "Rolling Kansas," "The Shawshank Redemption," "The Godfather Trilogy" "City of God," "Edward Scissor Hands," "Cinema Paradiso," "Julian Donkey-Boy," "Goodfellas,"
I also have a special place in my heart for Experimental Film which I often classify as different from "movies."
I used to have a huge crush on Maya Derren. :P

C. I love the Smashing Pumpkins!!! I also like, Radiohead, Elliot Smith, the Killers, Arcade Fire, CocoRosie, Regina Spektor, Zwan, Mirah, Norah Jones, Nirvana, Jimi Hendrix, and a bunch of other junk I can't remember right now.

D. When it comes to food, I like it all! Bring it on! I am consistently on the brink of learning to cook something new and exotic but then giving up and having some cereal or going out to eat.
The six things I could never do without
Hmmm... -water -dollar store gloves -music (that includes my guitar :) ) -family -some type of writing utensil -my countless expectations for tomorrow (ok, cheesy, but it seemed to fit :) )
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Story ideas. I wanna be a film writer/director and I've always got little plots and characters in my mind. Oooh, also, philosophy junk and things that hurt my mind and scare me at night.
On a typical Friday night I am
Chatting with friends, reading a book, watching a movie, or working some part of another 12+hr day.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
According to that Myers-Briggs Type Test I see everyone talking about, I am an INTJ which sounds about right.
(even though I tend to be skeptical about personality tests :P )

Sometimes, I wonder if different fictional characters would like me.
I think Hank Hill would consider me an "ok guy."
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you like nerdy, funny, random, off-beat, pastey-latin boys. :)
Or if you're bored and feel like chatting with someone new.
(I always end up in the weirdest, funniest conversations with people)

Also, if you find this as hilarious as I do...