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29 • Madison, WI • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–88
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends
- Last online
- Today – 6:16am
- 5′ 6″ (1.68m)
- Body type
- Not at all
- Other, and somewhat serious about it
- Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from high school
- Less than $20,000
- Likes dogs and likes cats
Why am I on this site? Picture this: It's 30+ years in the future. You started your day doing whatever when, suddenly, you see a bright flash of light in the distance. As is starts to get closer you realize it is an explosion tearing the planet asunder. It is the apocalypse! There's really no time for you to do anything besides think your last thoughts. What would they be? Remembering the nice times you had with your loved ones? Wishing you saw the finally to that one show? The last thought I would think would be "did I do everything I possibly could over the course of my life to prevent this planet tearing explosion or other world ending disaster?" I want the answer to be "yes."
I aim to be around hard working, industrious, goal driven folk who strive to have cool aspirations, and do non-weaksauce things to achieve them.
Not into cursing or talking about indecent stuff. I do love to joke around and be silly, but I want to be sure I deserve it. I want to be sure you deserve too. Joking around too much with someone who is listless and unmotivated makes me feel like I could have done better.
Things that are not really on my radar: Drugs, Alcohol, Piercings, tattoos, how someone looks, fashion, food.
Things that are on my radar: lightning, defeating bad guys, wisdom, old people, robots, solar eclipses, keeping the world safe, deservingness, not taking things for granted, and how to help dear ones to achieve their potential
Currently working at a daycare and studying Tech, Philanthropy, and Psychology on my own.
Been trying my best to eat and train like a bodybuilder. I have been making a surprising amount progress, despite being vegan.
the psychopathy of everyday life
the Lucifer effect
But to me, these are all just metaphor for something more important. If you have excellent problem solving skills, I'd be interested in your hobbies too.
At any moment, any given person anywhere in the world could decide to try their best in a field that affects me, and...COMPLETELY... CHANGE... EVERYTHING.
Oh man! someone reading this could decide that right now! :O
What is the nicest way to handle a situation where someone is mean to you.
When I ask all the questions from the person I'm chatting with, I feel uninteresting, generic, and confused. Equality is very important to me. Everyone having the best people in their life is important to me too. If we are not putting equal energy into a conversation, I will think you are just passing time with me. Diversity is also very important to me. If you don't ask me about my differences, I will think you see me as the same as someone you met before.
If you talk to me, could you try to have a back and fourth conversation with me?
Also, when someone asks to meet in person before we have a nice online conversation, I feel a bit rushed. I need a bit more time to see if we get along. I don't want to be pushed too fast into voice communication either. If we chat online, could you just enjoy the moment and not worry about what comes next? If it comes to a point conversation where something would be to complicated to type, that would good time to propose switching to voice or maybe meeting in person.
You should message me if you want to chat.
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