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62 M Alexandria, VA

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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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A doer more than a talker who enjoys diverse things from running and working out to travel, cooking and tasting wines. Spiritual in nature believing that things happen to bring us to our next level of enlightenment. A person creating balance between work and home.

I am energetic, easy going, and a food/wine lover
What I’m doing with my life
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Working on making sure there's enough time for myself and my friends and family. I also have my kids part time, and I love them like "out of this world" and the great thing is that we're getting along really well! I work hard, but I also want to enjoy time with my friends and family. Sometimes we forget how we got to where we are today, and we need to realize that it's never done by ourselves alone. I also spend time doing spiritual things like reading, prayer, affirmations and meditation. I truly believe in a higher spirit, and it doesn't matter if the spirit is called God, Allah, Buddha.....hey, didn't I say higher spirit?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hmmm.....well, I love to cook, and I normally look at a cookbook as a reference, but playing in the kitchen is my enjoyment. I like to drink red wines and will drink whites, but need to finish on red. I do my best to stay healthy with vitamin/mineral supplements, work out, run and stay active. Most people cannot keep up with my lifestyle. I used to do massages as a part time job, and stopped when they wanted me to take an 80 hour course, take a test, and get certified. would be very lucky! Finally, I'm not totally crazy, but I do view life a little "out of the box" and I believe in connecting with people, places and things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I look a hell of a lot younger than they think. I've been told I look in my early 40s. This has a lot to do with my Asian blood and the fact that I take mega vitamins/supplements for my health.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books? Well, a lot of them deal with health/spirituality. Just got through reading a book on enzymes for our bodies...very interesting read. I'm currently reading "I Will Not Die an Unlived Life." I like cooking/travel/wine magazines, Washington Post. Movies? Action stuff, drama, comedy. Food? Boy, the list is too long. Let's leave it at this: if someone cooked it and someone ate it, and lived to talk about it, I'm inclined to maybe wanting to try it. And then...if it's for sale somewhere in a grocery store, and I know nothing about it, I'm willing to buy it, take it home and experiment with it.
Music is almost everywhere......oldies, rock n roll, Sade, opera, classical guitar, Joan Armatrading, OAR, Train, Lady GaGa, country....almost everywhere.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
GEEZ....I've got more than that so I better just put down the, red wine, champagne/sparkling wine, having a romantic/sensual day with my partner, very nice warm baths...together, sharing dessert.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, spirituality, friends, and love. Sometimes we move so fast and want things in such a hurry that we forget that our lives are a journey...each challenge we meet either brings us closer to one of our goals, or we take 2 steps back if we stay in the negative light of that challenge. Our friends should be considered with our families. They move with the waves of our lives, and our friends are there to listen, support and motivate us to be the true spirit we really need to be. They are there in the dark and bright times, and have all the confidence in us that we'll pull through. Love.....what more can I say? I didn't know about unconditional love until my kids were born. Now, I understand that I possess such a strong emotion, and it continues to grow and grow. I am still learning about love, and my kids are teaching me what it means. Life. I want to break bread with my friends as often as possible. One day, either I or they might leave in one quick moment. I want to be able to say I shared my bread with my friend, and we enjoyed each other's company and conversation and love.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
What? There is no such thing as typical!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You tell me, and I'll tell you....okay?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 48–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are a low maintenance healthy woman looking for a serious relationship. Extra points if you don't like to cook, but love to eat, and don't mind doing the dishes to help
Also, if white zin is your favorite wine, I don't think we're a match.