31 Islip, NY
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My self-summary
Recent transplant to New York. I am in a long-term, loving and ethically non-monogamous relationship with knockoutroses and I'm back on OKC to keep an eye out for other polyamorous locals to find my people (And to chat with old friends).

If you are new or old to the consensual non-monogamy scene (polyamory, open relationships, etc.), give me a shout! I'm always interested in expanding my group of like-minded humans.

If you are just interesting and have stories to tell, write me as well. I crave knowledge -- love listening to stories and learning new skills, talents, tricks. My insomnia is generally fueled by overwhelming desires to know more things.

And then there's all the usual stuff - the great outdoors, music, travel, books, animals, smoothies.
What I’m doing with my life
I completed an MFA in creative writing, not for career ambitions but for fun.

I do much of the following: Traveling, writing, exploring, and training my dog to do new tricks like not eat my girlfriend's clothing found lying on the floor. It's an issue.

And I work in media.
I’m really good at
being modest.

Photography, being creative, predicting large scale weather events, training dogs, finding cheap ways to travel, and communication in general.
The first things people usually notice about me
In my line of work, I'd rather people not notice me at all.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Don Quixote, Les Miserables, Count of Monte Cristo, anything adventurous and non-fiction-ish, movies like Eternal Sunshine, Momento, When Harry Met Sally, Life Aquatic, Seven Samurai, and old-timey Kung-Fu films, and TV programs like FUTURAMA, Parks and Rec, Dexter, Community, Office, Bob's Burgers, and Breaking Bad.

The only food I truly enjoy eating: Smoothies.
The six things I could never do without
Guitar. Camera. Reading. Movies. Music. Sex-positive friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Salamanders, and photography.
It makes sense once you get to know me.
On a typical Friday night I am
At work, unfortunately.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I can knit.

I'm willing to admit a lot more in person. But for now I'll take the Swanson approach to personal information.
You should message me if
You are an honest and genuine person.

You have any questions about polyamory.

You like me or my partner.

And you are not insane.

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