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41 • M • San Francisco, CA
I’m looking for
- Gay guys only
- Ages 18–40
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Nov 14, 2013
- 6′ 2″ (1.88m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Atheism, and laughing about it
- Aries, but it doesn’t matter
- Dropped out of Ph.D program
- Rather not say
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t want kids
- Dislikes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), German (Poorly), C++ (Fluently)
I have a big soft spot for classically-trained aging Shakespearean sellouts: Ian McKellen, Patrick Stewart, John Gielgud, Timothy Dalton (thanks to Russell T for casting him as Rassilon!). Which brings me to science fiction: Doctor Who, Star Trek, Futurama. More cartoons: Family Guy is wicked. Hugh Laurie is genius, as was Arrested Development. I can be a sucker for gorgeous cinematography (Zhang Yimou comes to mind, as do Wings of Desire and Tom Ford's recent film) and high camp (Suddenly Last Summer).
I grew up with some classical piano training, and more recently I've fallen in love with a wide range of classical music. It doesn't get much better than the Brahms symphonies. I have a thing for Scandanvians -- Sibelius, Salonen, and a very pretty Sigur Rós song as performed by the Kronos Quartet (Flugufrelsarinn). I also enjoy listening to jazz (Coltrane is a good example). I like songwriters including Loreena Mckennitt and Vienna Teng. I even have a recurring tendency to play highly stereotypical gay dance music, but please don't tell anyone.
I enjoy foods with some complexity to them; I like French restaurants and certain types of Chinese, but also trying new things in just about any shape or form. I'm always up for an afternoon of wine tasting. I love the food in New Orleans and I can make a mean jambalaya.
My digital piano.
Parenthetical expressions (sorry about that).
Lists of things I could never do without.
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